I have a severe food allergy which has gotten in the way of closing with the kiss. For example, I have missed an opportunity to seal the deal because the girl had just eaten a bowl of Thai food-- i'm allergic to peanuts. Kissing her could have resulted in an allergic reaction. How can I kiss women spontaneously and close if I have to break the mood by interrogating them on what have they recently eaten? If I tell them about the allergy beforehand then ask them what they have been eating, it will give away my plans for the kiss and kill the romance.

My only idea is to just kiss them on the outer lips and pull away before any open mouth. That way I will build the attraction and close the night, and the next day I can talk about the allergy. But it's near impossible to get anyone to adjust their life (eating habits) if you've only just met them.

Arent there any pills against this?
U can take one of those before u go out.

My first thought is rather than fight it, to work around it and make it part of your thing. I'm reminded of one time when I was talking to a girl at a party, in front of her male friend who just introduced her to me, and I was asking her about herself, and only 4 lines into the conversation I'd learned that she was a backpacker from Mexico, and was leaving our town in two weeks for more travelling. Without missing a beat I said "Oh okay, I won't ask for your phone number then." and watched her shocked expression and then laughed - she seemed really animated by the guts I had to say that in front of everyone and was talking excitedly with me for the rest of the conversation.

For some reason, probably because of the tone, I could imagine someone saying "Okay, this is the part where I kiss you, but you've been eating nuts and I have a severe alergy to them, so ..." *shrug* with a "too bad" look. Maybe you could then laugh and pat her shoulder or whatever as if it was a joke. Maybe none of this is exactly what you might want to do, but I believe you can do something about it.

And then I would think you could save the spontaneous kissing for a time when you know what they've been eating for as long back as you need to, eg. an all day date.

I agree with Conker.

I understand that it has caused you problems, and if you were to choose between having it or not having it you wouldnt.
But man! It shouldnt be to hard to turn into some good routines..

Just a bit into the set:
"You know how I can usually tell if a girls comes on to me?"
her: how? bla bla
"You see, I have this food allergy. So whenever a girl wants to kiss me I have a lot of fun hearing them discretly trying to slip in what they had to eat that day, into the conversation.. "Im a yogainstructor, always eat sallad for lunch... and just had a sandwich before she went this really cool party...".

Then lead her into talking about what she eats..
"Wait a minute? Are you gonna try to kiss me?"

There must be other really cool ways of figuring this out.
I think its really important that it doesnt seem like problem to you, or that its something that has made girls turned off by.

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Ah that is an ace joke! If you can pull it off without without being obvious. Do you usually come up with stuff like that?

The situation for this guy is pretty shitty and in my mind
it can be a really smooth way to not come off as braggy when basicly saying:
Girls want me.. and they have to tell me what they had to eat before!

I mean.. I had a broken foot and went out. I would tell girls
that: Girls I meet must be strong, so they can carry me to the bed.
And then ask her if she works out alot.. then go: Are you tryin to get laid here, girl`?

This ofcourse would only work if we allready had some rapport, or else it would be comming of as needy, Can you carry me? Im weak.. bla bla bla..

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