I think one of my biggest down falls is making an emotional connection with the female of interest. Going "in field" and picking up, getting a number, KNOWING that a perticular girl is attracted to me is not a problem at all. It happens daily in all aspects of my surroundings. Now where I've come to realize i lack is I don't perticuarly want a lot of these girls for "girlfriend material" so if i dont fuck them that night i might ask them to goto a party sometimes,etc but in all of those situations I invite a lot of people to parties and won't necessarily be focusing on that girl. Now if I were to change my game up a little bit and start to tell girls the ones I'm even slightly interested in how I want them, and how we should hang out and go shopping, SOMETHING other than a situation that puts me in position for an easy lay and thats all I want them for is to goto parties, get laid, be around then I think I will begin to see my results increase exponentially. I think my lack of wanting a girlfriend has shown through subconciously because of the limited venues and interactions I have with the girls I'm interested in, they like me but want to know theres more we could do together.

I am not actually sure if I see your problem here, might be that I don't understand what you mean though.

If you want a girl-friend, take them to other venues who are more of a typical dating scene.

If not, then I can't really see a problem. It might just be that the right girl haven't crossed your path yet:)