Hey, this is really my first post (other than intro).

So, the short version... I fingered this girl, she played with me a little. Then she went to the bathroom, came out with a bullshit excuse and left.

The long version... So we threw a little party last nite at my place and HB6 brings over HB8 friend. I didnt really use an opener on her and kinda ignored her a bit at first. When I did start talking to her I was trying to think of a neg to use, but couldnt, so I didnt neg at all. So we talked a little bit and then we were all taking pics at the party. She got on my back and said the pics were cute (so i took this as an IOI). When she first got there I could see the way she looked me in the eyes, and kinda knew right away that she thought I looked good. Then she got on the computer, I asked if I could sit down too (so she could sit on my lap which she did) and she showed me some pictures and shit on her facebook. And some cheerleading videos (cause she used to be into that). So anyways, it got to be around like 3:30 in the morning and she asked where she was gonna sleep, and without me saying anything she said she would just sleep in my room. So I went in with her and layed down. She faced the opposite way but talked to me, so it kinda blocked out the opportunity for me to make out with her. So we kinda just layed together (like a couple would) and I grabbed her hand, squeezed and she squeezed bak. I wanted to go in for the kiss but didnt have the chance based on the position. So I basically just slowly moved my hand down her pants instead. She seemed open to it and I started fingering her. We then started making out a bit (she was a bad kisser tho). It took 5 min before she grabbed me. So a little bit into it:

Me: "Do you want to fuck?" (probably could have worded this better, lol)
HB8: "No, sorry im kinda picky about who I have sex with."
Me: "Ok, well I can respect that"

I took this as her saying that she is not gonna just fuck some guy she just met, not sure tho? So we went bak to what we were doing and I think she may have came, if she did it wasnt huge or anything so it was hard to tell. And she started to loose her wetness soon after too. So then she gets up and goes to the bathroom (at 5 in the morning now) and comes out with a bullshit excuse saying that she has church at 7:30 so she should probably go. I invited her to stay, but she declined.

So what happened her? why did she leave? My thoughts are that she may have just felt guilty about what she did, but Im really not sure. Feedback is appreciated

I wouldnt have asked her for sex, next time just try escalating untill she stops you then take a step back and freeze her out for a min then go back at it. If you ask her you are giving her an opportunity for LMR but if she already has your dick in her hand there should be no way that you can't improve your position.

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But the truth is, you have to do a LOT of wading and searching and trial and error before you meet a quality girl. There are so many stupid, emotionally fucked up, manipulative, shallow, uncultured, uninteresting, retarded bitches out there.

Yep spot on you shouldn't have worded it like that lol
This way she knew you were out for sex. You could have started touching her hair (or tickeling) and busting her on turning her back to you, then you could escalate faster. Thing is you went straight for the panties lol.