Its been 2 weeks since I quit masturbating and it feels great. Unlike before when I was trying to resist the urge, I just don't feel the urge to do it anymore. The best things is that all my sexual energy came back and it helps me be more present in the moment.

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I think this discussion is quite stupid.

Forgive me If I was to harsh but seriously, If you are not mature enough to decide how much to masturbate, thats the reason why you are not getting any.

Everyone is different, some people are really sexual and need to wank it all the time, other people doesnt.... thats the way Jesus made us (sorry if I offended someone, but my mother sex talk was "I know you are touching yourself son, b ut dont be embarrased about it, thats the way Jesus created boys")

Back on track; Its important to be confortable enough about your sexuality, and to know oneself. I slap the monkey when I need to. Like when I need to release some of that sexual tension.

Something that bothers me is that maybe some people want to be told how much to masturbate, how much is normal, or even how much would help you get good with women.

Thats the part that I find (and forgive me again) stupid. No ammount of yanking it off can get you women. We are just a bunch of guys that give advice on how to improve your life, and its just advice. We have no magic formulas, and with formulas I mean like step-by-step instructions. We just show you a way things might be and you have to work your own way.

Seriously, sometimes I think people gives way too much credit to PUA's. No one is smart enough to know how many times a week do you need to wank it to optimize your sex drive.

I wanna know what a sex therapist thinks about this.

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I think the main problem about masturbation has not yet been addressed. The problem isn't depletion of sexual energy, but rather what your mind begins to view as sexual. Porn is a major problem to some guys. It really isn't the content, but rather the fact that the brain begins to associate porn and sexual arousal so closely, that many guys begin to have serious sexual problems. To many guys, images on a computer screen become the sole source of sexuality in their lives, to the point that their lives revolve around it. I've heard stories of guys who have women in their bed, yet choose to jerk off to porn instead. I've heard stories of guys who can only get erections when they are watching porn, but not when they are with actual women. I've heard stories of guys losing their jobs and wives because their porn addiction was so destructive.

Now obviously this doesn't happens to most guys, but it does happen. Most guys know how to balance their lives properly, but there are some that cannot and porn and masturbation can be a serious problem to them. So trying to ignore this issue is just a bad idea.

tugging regularly = no will power

Testosterone = zero

Cold turkey for 9 days now

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