Like I said I would in FU:Strip club expirement, I went to a concert. I was 96% over my cold and I had a great time.

I knew the lead singer and several of the band mates, and I went out to support them. Okay first part of the evering I decide to have dinner, which left me waiting in a fucking line for 30 minutes. I kept cracking jokes about how I'd have grey hair by the time I got to the front and the piazza would have purple fuz on it. Got there and asked a cute girl if the food was anygood and asked her to wish me luck eatting it, because somebody came out to tell a friend that alot of people were heading to the bathroom. The food was actually really good.

Okay, this is like the third time I've been to anything like this, I normally sarge daytime, and honestly I'm looking around the venue and pussying out a bit. Not so much fear as not knowing where to start, it feels so alien to me, the enviroment it'll take time to adapt.

Doesn't matter because the band's up and playing and I go up front to watch. A chick is beside me at first and is dancing around abit and hitting me with her purse and ass at times. Why I didn't open her I don't know, I didn't feel any fear, I don't understand it.

Good music. I they leave the stage and I go do some other stuff. Nothing important.

Things get better later when I hang out with the band outside in the back, by the lake in the external part of the venue. I'm talking with some of the guys in the band and there friend when I meet the gaze of this really cool high energy chick I met the last time.

I don't say shit, she opens me before I have the chance to, she's like I know you. Now this is weird, it almost felt like she negged me. Your the guy that got hit on the head, I'm like er, no. She does recognize me though, and we start talking. Boy can she talk, but the really cool thing is is that its alway interesting, passionate. Anyway I only used part of my planned material, but that's okay because I don't have to always lead the convo here.

She's gf of one of the band mates so she's off limits, but I really enjoy talking to her. I'll call HBelectrictango, or HBET She introduces me to a girl, which is cool because I new to the whole merging sets and general social dynamics. One quick note, nothing is shinier to a girl dying for cig then a cig, and she stops the convo to beg a cig from a random guy, but after he leaves goes back to it. She says she doesn't have a job right now, so I say jokingly I give her a job landscaping, because she not the type to landscape, just tease her a bit.

Still for the most part we're slightly isolated away from her friends by like a few feet and that bites me in the ass because one of her friends pulls her away and she like I'll be right back, I say fine, but I not waying around like fool. I go find someone to talk to. There guys though so I decide to bale and decide to see if I can use HBET to open her female friends.

She talking with one and it works, I'm introduced to what I'll call HBSoccor. HBET's bf comes around and hugs HBsoccor at some point and I think they left, leaving me talking to HBsoccor. A quick note on HBET, she seemed have lower engery at this point and I wonder if it was because her bf was around?

Anyway I start taking with HBsoccor and she asks me stuff like how I know the guys and vis versa. Some of the guys in the band actually worked with me for a time in landscaping, my dad's business, with me suppervising them, which is funny because I suck at landscaping hahaha, but I still knew more then the guys. So I tell her I worked with some of them, supervised them a bit, and said I wasn't an asshole though, then said well maybe a bit of an asshole with homour. She got a kick out of it and said they needed it, (she went to highschool with some of them). was this a DHV?

She asks me where I live and I tell her and she tells me where she lives and I note a bit of competiteness so I bust on her for being so competetive, and she admits she competed in soccor against my town, representing her, and keep teasing her about how competeteive she is stuff. It was beautiful, worked so well.

At some point I meantion I recently got free of a cold and she told me she had a cold and I told its no big deal, I'm not a hypocondract.

For the most part it went well. There was a couple of akward pauses, but she filled those in twice, which I took as a good sight. For some reason I didn't try to close and I think this pissed her off a little. I didn't bounce/moved with her to the pier and I should have. I didn't #/@ close and I should have, nothing. So she decided she had to go take a piss. She didn't have a major attidude or anything, just subtle vibe I got off her that I should have closed or something.

I opened another girl later, who was very receptive for like a minute. I had to leave soon after because my ride was ready to go.

Something I have to learn. How to become more comfortable in this sort of venue. Better group dynamics. To pony up and close when the opportunity is there. That the next time I see HBET I hope to turn her into a pivot.