Last night i was out with my buddies at a club down here in orange county. The night was packed with alot of hunnies. We were all dusted and having a good ass time. #closed one girl who asked for a cigarette. Danced with one girl who put my hands on her pussy, which was later cock blocked by her friend. And just had a good ass time, dusted and getting on girls. Than it just got too damn packed with guys.

I was bumping into guys on left and right. I'm in the zone to serge and when guys keep on fucking bumping, you'd get irritated ass hell. I have already punked one guy for shoving me, which my friend held me back from socking the shit out of him, making his gay ass kanye west sunglasses fall off. It was funny tho, the girls at clubs love to get into it, "oh don't fight, blah blah" (shut up bitch go away). Well later on some other fuck bumps into me and starts staring. He was yay' taller, pretty yoked, and pretty much a douchebag that thought he was all-that with his stupid ass hat.

Me- "Wtf you staring at"
Douche- couldn't made out wat he said
Me- "fuck you lets go bitch"
Douche- "What are you? some gangster"
Me- "Fuck you faggot lets go mother fucker"
(I then pushed him)
Background- "Guys c'mon stop!!, blah blah" as they were holding me back.

We just kept on cussing at each other as people we're holding me back, with his ass walking backwards as he's cussing (IOP, Indicator of a Pussy). After that I stoved the people behind me than rushed toward him and banked him right on the head twice. A buddy of mine grabbed him. I then threw several punches which one landed on my friend lol. He has a big ol bump between his eyebrows. Than a bunch of people grabbed me and pulled me back. Standing there I saw that douche laying on the ground with his hands over his head looking like a cradled baby that fell off a crib.

Seriously, you need to be able to keep your calm a lot better then this. This is not cool in anyway.

Anger is an emotion, and you can't always control your emotions. Instead of keeping your calm, you have to keep your chin up so people don't take advantage of you.

Seriously man, that is hardly cool. I hate fuckwits that cannot keep their cool and stir up brawls because of pitty moments like being bumped. Just forgive and forget, I dont know about you. Most girls I have met think fighting is a huge turn off. If you get shoved, just grin at the guy, give him a cheeky smile to prove you are not phased and walk away. Show your character, and calmness and it will boost your charisma.

cheers

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I understand where you guys are coming from, but put inconsideration where people grow up and raised. I'm from an area where you have to stand up for urself. There has been times when i'd been cussed at for my ethnicity, been brawls that could of been easily avoided, etc. The way I live my life and how I was raised, respect is important. If people don't respect you, than you don't show respect to them. I was bumping into everyone, if i started a fight with everyone who bumped into me, than there would of been 100 of fights. The first guy put his arm out and pushed me to the side. And you'd let some guy do that to you? fuck no. The last incident we both bumped into each other and that guy tried to stare me down. He felt he had authority over me since i'm not as big, or whatever. I stood my ground. Remember, don't start shit unless you want to get into shit

I was once at a wedding for my friends brother. Me and some guys were drinking in the garage... story short. Some guy told me to drink a shot because he said I lost. I didn't lose, the thing is that guy was trying to get all of drunk so that he can fuck some girl we all know who was also sitting there. I then stood my ground and told this guy to fuck off since everyone else was not willing too. After he left, everyone was yea man fuck him, he was fucking playing dirty... well why do you say this now after I say something? This is wat separates a man from a boy.

Another thing, I don't give a shit if this is a turn off for girls. You stand up for yourself and for noone else. If your a PUA than your an Alpha, thats how it works. Men who stood up for themselves, had diginity, and won't back from noone, are the one who are real men.

You should be embarrassed for saying that. Sure, we all feel angry at times, but you clearly got issues dealing with it.

One of the fundamental states a pua has to have is being "emotionally detached". In other words, you don't let the outside world change your emotional state which you clearly do. What you can do is instead saying with a calm voice "leave" and it will at the same time be more of an alpha-male characteristic then what you currently are doing.

- Exerio

I know what you talking about and I understand completely, when you are being made fun off by people you get shaped and think you have to keep your chhin up and become very hard..

I know, I want to punch a guy who is annoying me also, but It really is a turn off for girls.... So this is a dilemma,
You want to kick the brains out of this guy and second you dont want the girl think you are jerk because of this..
What did you accomplish with this, You only cre3ated more anger and frustration and you become more and more angry on these guys, you go blame them for ruin your evening while in fact it is actually you who lets his emotions being controlled by some wussy.. You really want to give them control, that is what they want.. I know you want to punch the guy and give hum a fuckin nose blood. But I am sure that if the next time you face a similar context/situation and you can keep your calmness, you are the man... That is really alpha, allthough you think you dont want to come across as a wussy, but you dont.... if I wanted to irritate somebody and that guy just didnt react on it, i would definetely think i cant get this guy, because he has better things to do... And that is real power.. Hope you feel me with this, and I know your situation and I KNOW dealing the situations in this way doesnt really help.. Especially not for yourself..

Cheers

lmao i thought it was funny, i always enjoy a good fight ha

let me guess. your asian. -_- . what club was it in the OC? What i noticed alot when i use to go clubbin down in OC is the hostilites between people. Everyone is trying to have fun and pick up a girl. Just gotta keep your cool about it. Everytime i see a fight at the clubs i think " great a bunch of morons fighting over a girl or trying to show off there testoserone) while your busying fight, i'm busy picking up your girl using the " did you see that fight?" opener. Just gotta learn to keep your cool. Being a man is learning to walk away from stupid situation like this. you dont need that drama you are better then this. BTW pick me up five #! from Lee's sandwhichs and send them over

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Oh man - if you keep acting like that you're going to get arrested one night and wind up with a criminal conviction. Since you live in California, a criminal conviction means you will be unemployable (at least for a good job) and unhappy.

If the area you live in is really that rough, and you really have to stand up for yourself like that, you should consider going out to other areas. There are what, 17 million people that live in the greater Los Angeles area, I'm sure you can find other scenes.

Being a man is standing up for yourself. Something you gonna need to learn when your with your little girlfriends but about to be punked by someone. Stand up for yourself and grow some balls, don't walk away like all those other pussies. btw, fuck Lee's sandwich that shit is gross

Standing up for yourself doesn't have to mean throwing punches. Also, when you even use the phrase 'standing up for myself' it's indicating that you have a self-esteem issue because a true alpha would not feel threatened or angered by anyone, anymore than you'd feel threatened and angered if a little 5 year old kid ran up and tried to start a fight with you. When people get all pissed at me and try to start a fight with me, I just look at them and start laughing incredulously because in my mind I'm picturing them as little kindergartners that haven't grown up and learned to act like adults yet. Of course if anyone ever actually did lay hands on me or a friend of mine, I'd put them in the hospital before they could take three more breaths. But that has never been an issue for me, because the confidence I display by just laughing at them the same way I'd laugh at a small child always makes them back off, no matter how much bigger they are. I guess it helps a lot that I really DO have that confidence, after training for years in MMA.

how do you laugh in a situation where they're degrading you, calling you this and that. even worse if it's in front of your girl or whatever...i agree that walking away is the best idea if you think about the consequences but its really hard when you're in the situation

You just ignore them as if they're escaped mental patients. As long as their not following you around, It's like when you meet street preachers or other weirdos, they're part of the scenery and not something you pay attention too.

Punching a guy, while buddy is holding the guy is not standing up for yourself. Hitting someone who trying to leave and doesn't want to fight is just pathetic.

Your not standing up for yourself, your just a bully with a chip on his shoulder.

Picking fights, and if it was as you described you picked it, is just dlv.

Violence is only okay in self or other defence, not to protect your ego. My dad used to be the same way.