It's hard to put these type of situations into perspective, because a girl would try to justify this situation from her point of view and a guy would constantly counter it with "yeah buts"....my conclusion is....the monetary system we live in at the moment has made life as a whole more complicated than it should be thus affecting relationships between men and women.

Am sure people like Style or Mystery or David DeAngelo would know the answer to this. We are humans, if we cant understnad outself - why try to understand the universe?

I'm sure they would tell you not tow worry about her guy friends....just like everyone else is telling you! This isn't rocket science and you don't need a "guru" to answer this question for you.

My girlfriend wants me to go round hers tonight to stay over.

It'll probably be the last time I see her before I go on holiday, which will be for a month. She doesn't want me to bring any drinks because she doesn't "trust herself" with me...so in other words she doesn't want to have sex.

I'll be staying the night over, and rather than spending more time with me on saturday she's going out "pub crawl" to get to know the new people in her area. Pub Crawl is basically going to multiple bars to drink.

It takes me 3 hours to get to her place and it most definetly isn't cheap either.

Deep down I do really want to see her, but then theres those things I've stated that are stopping me.

I'm leaving on the 28th to holiday, but it's likely she'll be busy next week and won't be able to see me.

Should I go or not?

This isn't a question anyone else can answer for you. It all comes down to one thing...do you want to see her or not?

bonita is on fire with the advice lol keep it coming

so i was wondering, same situation as angelz & donnie only the girlfriend comments her guy friend's myspace pictures with things like "this is sooo sexy" etc.

does the "don't worry about it" rule still stand?

It's odd because, in most occasions where the girl communicates some sort of playful/flirty meanings to other guys so openly, the "don't worry about it" rule seems to apply. This is mainly because she's not hiding anything which clearly shows that there's nothing going on between them.

I reckon the rule doesn't apply so much, when she's not so public about those things and you find out from others. That's when its time to start worrying a tad me thinks...

I did want to see her and did. We had a great time, although I did get pretty annoyed when she was putting immense effort whilst I was there, despite the fact that I wasn't even going out.

For once she brought the camera with her and took pictures of us, which was quite nice.

I met her new housemates, and when they saw me they decided to interrogate me with questions whilst me and my girlfriend on the bed. They came in so casually and asked me so many questions. My girlfriend said they thought I was cute when I left the room, so that's a good thing I suppose.

Another odd thing is, the other 2 girls seem to want all 3 of the boyfriends (including myself) to meet up on the same day we go round their house and see if we get along.

Also one of the girls (the one that said I was cute....but later also called me a whore when she saw the lovebite I gave to my gf) seemed to love coming into my girlfriends room....even whilst I'm still in my boxers in bed..a tad awkward.