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PostPosted: Thu Jul 16, 2009 4:54 pm 
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Okay so some background information:
I met this girl at a party, talked a little and number closed just before she left.

I texted her once and got one or two replies and then she stopped replying entirely.
I kind of brushed it of, shit happens right? And then I met her at another party, where I talked to her some more and she even brought up her "difficulty" texting, how she never texts people back. She assured me that she would reply if I were to texted her again.

So, texted her a few days later, same thing happened! Short conversation followed by a halt in replies.

She's really interested whenever I see her in person but this texting game (or lack thereof) is frustrating the shit out of me.

I figure I have a few options;
Forget about it, dead set (which I'd really rather not do)
Text her again and invite her to coffee, maybe if I'm asking her out she'll reply as it's not just small talk
Call her and ask her to coffee (also could do if text invite fails)

Any other ideas or advice on what to do would be awesome!


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 16, 2009 5:07 pm 
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First need to ask if you've any chance of bumping into her again in the near future, if you do then strike up a convo with her and ask her out there and then, thats the best way.

Otherwise I'd give her a ring instead, and just try and have a short, interesting convo and just ask her out on the phone. You have nothing to lose man, if you both get on in person then you need to get her out with you, play to your strengths, good luck.


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 18, 2009 7:16 pm 
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I think you need to back up a bit. Let her chase you. I get the impression that she likes to be chased. She likes getting texts off you and then leaving you hanging. Just dont text her anymore. next time you see her (assuming you bump into eachother relatively often) dont go for her. Act cold and let her work for you. She didnt reply to alot of your texts remember!?! An alpha would not put up with that. Let her work to win you back.

She should see that her game, and im sure it is a game, isnt working and that you seem to be losing interest and she'll fight to get you back. If she doesnt work to get you back then its going nowhere in my opinion. Thats what i'd do anyway. Good luck!


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I'd definately go with what lomac said.

Also next time you see her, if she starts saying that its hard for her to text back, and that she will definately text you back next time, turn it around so your back in control.

So tease her a bit about not being able to text back, maybe something about needing to possess a certain amount of intelligence in order to hold a conversation on text, and then say that when she texts you, you will make sure you reply.

Doing this lets her know that you know shes playing a game with the whole going cold on text, and also lets her know your in control, aswell as giving you the advantage of knowing whether theres any interest or not, because if there is she will text you

Good luck, and obviously tailor the teasing to fit with your style and so that it wont come off as a direct insult

Hope it helps :D


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Thanks for the tips guys,
That's definitely what I would do, however the chances of me running into her any time soon is very slim.

I can get her to chase me pretty easily in person, but I figure this is where she plays her game - texting.
At this point I'm speculating that I need to meet up with her in person and spend some time with her to raise her investment, and then this texting nonsense will cease to be a problem.
However I would have to push through her texting game, which would evidently be doing exactly what she wants me to.

Dilemma - Continue texting = chasing her (vs.) Stop texting = losing contact

The only thing I can think of is to call her and ask her out, as she can't really play games by not responding.


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 19, 2009 9:12 am 
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I see the problem mate, its a nightmare when that happens!

Only thing i can think of is to call her and arrange to meet somewhere. When you go to meet take something with you, maybe a cheap hat or necklace etc and make sure you give it to her, that way you always have a reason to see her at least one more time, and it gets her invested because she will want to give it back to you, especially if you tell her a story of how important it is to you when you give it to her.

Let us know how it works out


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i know exactly what position you're in. I went through the same thing myself sorta. met a girl who i kinda already knew and we started texting eachother over time. This was before i had a game so i had no idea what i was doing. She texted a few times until we had a nice convo going then just stopped, as if she had dropped her phone in the toilet or something.

She was a friend of a friend so we'd see each other pretty often (about once every two months). Then shed start texting me at random and id start a conversation with her which she would stop. This went on for about three months! It got very annoying and i got sorta gave up on her. then shed text me again or we'd see eachother and id get into her again. I'd start texting her for a while and suddenly she wud stop texting again.

So finally, seeing as nothing else was working, i decided to just ignore her and let her stew. We ended up bumping into eachother in a club and i could sense she was attracted to me. back then i had no idea how to know when a girl was attracted to me but she didnt rly try to hide it. long story short she kissed me. then a few months later we had sex in her house after a party.

i figured she was someone who liked power over guys and just by getting fed up with her and ignoring her i was actually drawing her in without realising. I think there are some girls out there that sorta have their own game and use it as a way of attracting us. But we dont realise it and to us it seems like they are being cold.

Basically what im saying is dont start texting her. She really wants you to. Just ignore her and if she texts u just pretty quickly ask her to come out one night or something. Cos you can keep texting her but she'll just keep playing with you over and over again until she gets bored.

my two cents. wish you well whatever you do.


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i know exactly what position you're in. I went through the same thing myself sorta. met a girl who i kinda already knew and we started texting eachother over time. This was before i had a game so i had no idea what i was doing. She texted a few times until we had a nice convo going then just stopped, as if she had dropped her phone in the toilet or something.

She was a friend of a friend so we'd see each other pretty often (about once every two months). Then shed start texting me at random and id start a conversation with her which she would stop. This went on for about three months! It got very annoying and i got sorta gave up on her. then shed text me again or we'd see eachother and id get into her again. I'd start texting her for a while and suddenly she wud stop texting again.

So finally, seeing as nothing else was working, i decided to just ignore her and let her stew. We ended up bumping into eachother in a club and i could sense she was attracted to me. back then i had no idea how to know when a girl was attracted to me but she didnt rly try to hide it. long story short she kissed me. then a few months later we had sex in her house after a party.

i figured she was someone who liked power over guys and just by getting fed up with her and ignoring her i was actually drawing her in without realising. I think there are some girls out there that sorta have their own game and use it as a way of attracting us. But we dont realise it and to us it seems like they are being cold.

Basically what im saying is dont start texting her. She really wants you to. Just ignore her and if she texts u just pretty quickly ask her to come out one night or something. Cos you can keep texting her but she'll just keep playing with you over and over again until she gets bored.

my two cents. wish you well whatever you do.
I have one of those on my hands right now, so I can relate. She'll stop texting sometimes out of nowhere and after a while I'll text her back and re-initiate a new conversation. She's really interested and she's hooked, as I could tell by one of our last text conversations. But yeah I sent her one sometime last week and she didn't respond. And so now that I'm on vacation for a while I'm going to leave her alone for a while


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Quick knowlege ... sorry to say man but she is not into you move on ... when a chick does that its just a sign of them trying to be nice and not blow you off ... thats all it is to them ... the convosation to them is just them being nice ... I think you need to rework your game and move on ... if somebody short texts you twice there not going to go on a date with you .... After she didn't text me back the first time I would of took the hint and beat it ... Did you kino her, did yall have a serious convo??? was she laughing was she into you??? did you have her eating out of your hand ????


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