hey guys.

i went out saturday night and wasnt intending to sarge at all. it was a mates leaving party so it was more about him.

Anyway there was this stunning HB8 and her friend sitting down so i used the 3 second rule and approached straight away with the 'my friends proposing after 3 months opener'. now this got the friend very hooked. she just kept ratteling off abloslute dribble. but the HB8 wasnt interested. she was kinda facing the other way giving me no attention what so ever.

Would just like to hear what ive done wrong. i know i should have negged her but i dont know how to do that when she isnt even giving me any attention.

cheers

brados

hello again brados!

the not intending to sarge nights are always the best! your so calm and not anxious at all, no expectations at all. anyway....

that situation personally just some thoughts on what I would have tried. If the hb8 is noticeably more attractive than the friend. She knows it. Ignore her at first like all the reading tells you but in order to ignore her you need to get her involved your right.

Did you direct a follow up question directly at her? after the friend answers the opener, through her a bone and ask her directly what she thinks. Kino the shoulder, get the friend to get her attention and as her the question, something that she will def respond to. Once she responds follow up on it again. Get her involved that way.

something else maybe just try negging her though the conversation with the friend. She is right there and shes not def. Drop a line to the friend about her girl being super shy or anti social. She will hear you, but make sure its light and with a laugh and smile. her not seeing you say it she can't read your facial expression.

logistics. move directly in front of her! get in the way so she cant avoid you. Make an excuse to sit down across from her.

maybe she was just havin a shitty night. not your fault she didn't want to open up to the time of her life.

Just some thoughts bro.

drib

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Two things. Number one...It's called push/pull. not push. I always see that happen to my students when they go out sarging for the first few times they'll completely ignore the target and after a while of course the target will just write you off like whatever.

Number two...honestly she probably just let her friend finally get some play. I've seen this happen and I've actually done this a few times. Every now and then when you engage the obstacle the target will be just glad that someone is talking to her friend. Especially if she's hot and has been approached all day. That's why you have to engage the group. Important.

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cheers guys. have kinda used it on saturday night and worked a treat