"i have a boyfreind" is this really a shit test?



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PostPosted: Sat Jun 13, 2009 4:08 am 
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do you think a women would actually say this as a test it just sounds more like an iod to me or perhaps she wants you to know she has one so that it's understood and o.k. before proceeding. but to me ive always considered a shit test a hoop a women puts up. im just trying to put everything into better percpective. so that i can make a more perfect seduction model.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 13, 2009 4:22 am 
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Could be a shit test, but there are ways to defuse these.

Her: I have a boyfriend

You: Thats not what I asked you

-or-

You: That's great! He can make us breakfast in bed.

ask me, i got plent others.

Point is, dont let "i have a boyfriend" intimidate you. If it does, she'll know, and she'll know what your intentions are before you even get going.

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Could be a shit test, but there are ways to defuse these.

Her: I have a boyfriend

You: Thats not what I asked you

-or-

You: That's great! He can make us breakfast in bed.

ask me, i got plent others.

Point is, dont let "i have a boyfriend" intimidate you. If it does, she'll know, and she'll know what your intentions are before you even get going.
thanks, but i have a "hoop theory" and a "punishment/reward/neutral theory" and this seems to fall more under "punishment/reward/nuetral" i'm just trying to really break this down a little better than mystery. it sounds like a flat out iod but maybe it's a hoop. i would stay neutral during this one with my "punishment/reward/nuetral theory".

actually i think i just answered my own question


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Personally, I dont let it get to me. If she says she has a b/f, thats fine. I'll just try to go after someone else. I think this is called abundance mentality.


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if she says she has a bf, it means she clearly does not approve your advances, so yeah you're better off moving on.

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Depending
Night/Club Game - Probally a shit test 10% of girls goto a club with a b.f. if he is not there then they want a new one or 5% they are jsut tere with friends.
Day Game / Mall / Store - They probally have a boyfriend .. still shouldnt stop you...IF they really have a b.f they want to keep this will happen
hey.....I have a boyfriend....aa a a a sexy aaa a aa...I have a boyfriend.....a a aaa a .. I told you I have a boyfriend.
They will keep saying it...after like 2 or 3 then its time to eject.unless you wanna try it mabye you get it.who knows....

It's really a toss up on day game.

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Imagine you have a girlfriend, right, and you are out with a couple of friends (without her).
Well as you are drinking and having fun with your dudes, a girl comes by and starts talking to you (yea i know basically hitting on you)...
What are you suppose to do? To tell her you have a girlfriend and f*ck off dont talk to me... No man noway.
Well at first she is not hitting on you, she is just starting a polite conversation and you havent yet signs on hitting, so you cant basically tell her you have a gf, you are not guilty of something.

(Hey i wanna be social, there is the problem with that...)

Why do i have to shut her down while she is only talking to me and having fun???

Yes im gonna do that when IM BORED with you and which means i dont wanna continue that or you are hard hitting on me and i dont like either...

So when a girl tells you that i think you are 99 persent out and that means you didnt manage the A1->A2 quite well, either she has a bf or not.


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Someone told me this and I think its a good line to use...

"I have a boyfriend" Girl
"Wow, I just met you and your already telling me about all your problems" You


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I like that one Trickey!


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RIGHT AFTER SHE SAYS THAT JUST SAY " HOW LONG HAVE U HAD THAT PROBLEM (SMILE) AND WAIT... IF SHE SAYS IT'S NOT A PROBLEM AT ALL.. OR 3 MONTHS HE'S AWESOME!! MOVE ON!

BUT IF SHE SAYS SOMETHING LIKE, TOO LONG OR 3MONTHS *SIGH*
I EVEN GOT THIS ONCE RIGHT AFTER I SMILED. (SHE LOOKED AT ME AND REALIZED) "I'VE ACTUALLY BEEN CHEATING ON HIM FOR 2 MONTHS NOW".

NUMBER CLOSED HER AND SHE HAS BEEN TRYIN TO HANG OUT BUT I'VE BEEN A BIT BUSY LATELY.

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OOPS DIDN'T KNOW SOMEONE POSTED A SIMILAR VARIANT OF THE ONE I USE.. EITHER WAY U SAY IT MAKE SURE YOU HAVE GOOD CONFIDENT TONALITY

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What she says: "I have a boyfriend" or "blah blah MY BOYFRIEND blah blah"

What I hear: "Having sex with me will be more hot and fun than regular sex because I might be more of a challenge and we would also be going against societal norms together."

Sprks: Stop typing in all caps


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hahaha my bad. Figured people can read it just as good that way without having to use bold fonts or increase the size.. didn't mean to hurt your eyes

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SHE: You know, i have a boyfriend...
YOU: Well this is not what I asked you... (I like this one, its quite good. However, with that line you state that you don't care (give a sh8t) about her boyfriend, but what if she IS in love with him bla bla bla...)

or

SHE: You know, i have a boyfriend...
YOU: Well, I'm not here solving your problems (like the fellows said above... kind of funny)

or what i would do

SHE: You know, i have a boyfriend...
YOU: Well...hmm (you look like confused, like you don't understand) who told you im hitting on you right now?(Then Style's push-pull)... Wooo Wooo you misunderstood me girl (you look like disappointed)... (pause for a bit and then)... im really offended right now (and body rocking like you are leaving for being offended or talk to the other girls)

you can adjust the lines as you want for your own thing


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Personally, I dont let it get to me. If she says she has a b/f, thats fine. I'll just try to go after someone else. I think this is called abundance mentality.
No, this is called... there is plenty of pussy to go arround

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