Alrighty guys, towards the end of last semester I started seeing this girl. We were always friends and become intimate later in the semester. Timing wasnt on my side at the time, but we had such great chemistry and over the summer we talked a lil bit and she wanted me to visit and told me how much she missed me, and later on we kinda faded off and she told me she still had feelings for her ex and was going to try to get back with him. I got pissed off and said things I shouldnt have said, like called her out on being a player and to stay away from me. 3 1/2 weeks after that she sent me a txt at 1 in the morning. I`ll give ya the entire convo (not that long) to see wat u guys thinks she wants with me.

Her: Hey I know its late and no this is not a drunken txt. Ive just been thinking aout you..wanted to say hello n see how you were..
Me; Ive been thinkg bout u 2, and Ive been alrite i guess just enjoying the summer b4 fball starts
Her:That's good, Hows ur eye doing.. all healed up Im guessing! when do u start practice.
Me; how have you been
Her: Good really, Ive just been working n such nothing big going on in my life.
Me; Ahh well its still red and vision is goin to take a while and fball starts the 9th
Her: Aw well youll get better fast. IM back in towson on the 20th
Me; Ive just been working out, not running much at all lol
Her: You would tell me that haha getting ripped. ive been running on the beach trying to stay on the beach

Her: Aw im sure youll be great though dont worry youll get through it dont stresss
Me; so u better be at my games this year? lol
Her: Chris Ill be at every game you know this ofcourse I will! Id wear your away jersey.. am i allwoed to do that>
Me: Haha aww Ill c wat i can do! id really like that
Her: Me too. I seriously miss you.
me; Aww i miss you 2, Jenna wat i said a while back was wrong and i really overreacted and im truly sry
Her: No no you didint at all. I was the messed up one.
Me, I was just mean and I had that same situation twice b4 and I took it out on u
Her: No but I shouldnt have done that it was so messed up. IM honestly just going it alone now. I think its healthy for me right now.
Me; its ok, IM just glad u dont hate me now lol
Her: I could never ever hate you..Your to sweet to gate plus you didnt do anyting wrong.
Me: Hey im sry to let ya go but I got work in the morn.
Her; No worries Ill talk to you soon, sleep tight
Me: kk, nit nite lol

Aww, you are such a pussy!

Dude, grow the fuck up and show some respect.

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It's clear that she's interested in you and seeks a relationship of some sort. The game should flow easily from here. She clearly likes you and if you like her back, I think you should give her a chance. Act like you normally do (idk, go out with her, talk to her etc) until you've isolated her. The isolation can take place anywhere really, but I suggest back at your place or her place. The go for the k-close. I guess you know what can and cannot happen next.

Ur in dawg, id bet the first time ya see ur u slam her. Just make sure u dont keep appologizing and goin wit all the sympathy. Act like u know she wants you and that things are meant to be and things will work out for u guys. Cant let her bitch ya around lol

Well i know it may seem obvious in some ways but before she was hesitant as fuck to get into a relationship. We fucked a couple times and went out before school ended and so yea when she gets back we`ll hang out a couple times and get back what we had. Im asking u guys cuz some girls have a sense of insecurity and i was thinking if she wanted to be with me just to be with someone or to be with me cuz she really likes me. its obvious girl plays mind games and I hate dealing with women who r not sure wheter they over their ex or not. And to the first guy, who responded to me, I am guilty of being a little to nice but i dunno its just who i am but if a chick pisses me off i let her have it.

Sounds like your definately in man, but yeah I'd man up abit from now on, you've shown your sensitive side in that convo, now you need to take control and get in there.