Okay guys. I've F'ed up so many good PU oppertunities by drinking too much, i'm fed up with it! I find it difficult to drink in moderation so I'm just gonna cut off the alcohol supply!

Let's all post our stories on screwed up opportunities below. So we can watch and learn from each others experiences.

Here's my last saturday for ya:

1. Built rapport fast with a girl; facebook closed because she didnt want to kiss: she got kiss closed by my neigbour a few hours later commenting that I was too needy.

2.this was also a day-two with another girl that really wanted to see me again in the bar. I yelled out to her when she walked by, but she didn't hear or didn't want to hear I guess, cause I was King Clown (peacock = good, peacock+drunk=freak)

3. Last, but not least. Tried picking up two Brazilian girls. One teached me how to dance salsa, but got pissed after I clumsily put my hand on her ass. The other girl was kind of tired and asked for a day two and gave her hotelroom number. This was my sign to eject, but I kept going. Today I discoverd another little note in my wallet with a URL (don't remeber getting it). It turns out one of the girls (I don't even know wich one) is a pop singer in Brazil (HB10). I remember she was giving me IOI's until the point were i should have ejected. Left a few messages in the hotel and her website, no response.

I'm making a lot of progress and I'm tired of alcohol getting in the way. How about you? Please post if you want to make a contibution. thanx

Bucc

Had an exgirlfriend who i still worked with, and still really cared about. Well at the christmas party, she was being herself (she is very flirty) and i was Looooaaaded, she asked me to slowdance, n i tried kissin her n told her i loved her. Ya that bad...so i agree with ya, no more booze
Amen Brother

Had an exgirlfriend who i still worked with, and still really cared about. Well at the christmas party, she was being herself (she is very flirty) and i was Looooaaaded, she asked me to slowdance, n i tried kissin her n told her i loved her. Ya that bad...so i agree with ya, no more booze
Amen Brother

Hey bro,

I think that one thing that is also useful to remember is that although you feel much more confident and sometimes get to the point where you are totally bold but on the other hand, you become emotional, say some babe, leads you on a bit and then shuts you down,
if you haven't drunk you don't feel it as much and just take it in your stride but if you are drunk it means everything and you lose the plot then you wake up the next day thinking "oh my God what fuck did I do????"

just like Mystery says, you can game better without the booze.

I got drunk for the first time a few days ago at my 18th birthday party. It helped me a lot, it helped me be more condidant, more social, and just chill more. When I get high on the other hand, I get paranoid, overemotional, and basically crawl inside a shell.

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I used to have trouble with moderation as well. The trick is to drink slowly starting early so that you will know when you are at a good level and force yourself to stop.

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If only God would give me some clear sign! Like making a large deposit in my name in a Swiss bank. - Woody Allen

Alcohol is a crutch; You should not need to be drunk or drinking to be able to run game.

You have to let go of any thoughts of social proof. Fuck what people think about be you and no one else if your unable to be yourself without drinking you need to do some serious inner soul searching.


I've never been a big drinker, I go out and act a total fool without to the point where people will ask me what I'm drinking and when i say water they laugh in disbelief.

Well when you are young, you always overdo the alcohol. As you get older, you get a lot better at moderating yourself. I like to have a drink or two, and stop. If I'm there for more than like 2 hours, I might have another, but that's about it.

The idea is just to have a little alcohol to loosen up. Not to try to use it as liquid courage or an excuse for bad behavior.

One time i invited this girl i wanted to chop and her friend over to my house and we had a bit to drink. Let me correct myself, they had a bit to drink but i had a shit load and i just lost control, started throwing shit around my house and pissing in my garbage can. Total disaster. She never talked to me again after that. But we learn from out mistakes and i see this as a great lesson and so should you.

Thats what you think...

I used to think alcohol was needed....then I started drinking Odouls....and realized it was me. LOL. Really. I drew state from my sense of being drunk and having no inhibitions ....proof you don't need alcohol. But don't take my word for it. One or two drinks and a frame aim for fun is all you need. Unless you are a weaksauce drinker....then just smell the alcohol.

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Got big problems with alcohol, Last time I wasted a golden opportunity. I saw a very hot girl and I was kind off showing off whitout looking at her. Later on the night the girl came to me smiling, I was really active speaking to everyone (alcohol helped for this), I was touching her hair and she just stayed there in front of me smiling (huuge IOI!) and I told her she was beautifull and kissed her hand very quickly (a bit freaky, maybe I scared her off or maybe she was seeing I was totally wasted) and I just let her go.

One time a really hot girl asked me to buy her a drink, but she really didn't seemed like a bitch she seemed like a girl who didn't know what else to say to start a conversation. And I was like : NO!... and kind off nagging her.

I'm really fucked up ALOT occasions on alcohol. It's been more than a month since I had my last drink (but I didn't go out neither so I haven't been really tempted). But really, I can't rely on alcohol it just fucks me up too much.

By the way I made a list of costs related to too much drinking and I'm allready above 2000 euros, the actual price tag is much higher (I guess you can at least double it for sure, cause of stupid spendings you do when you're allready drunk). I gotta keep myself commited to this, this is too important.

Alcohol has messed up plenty of opportunities for me.. one night i was wasted and told a girl i loved her, and another night i was drunk again tryin to pick up this different chick and found out the next day i told her how much i loved the other girl... plus i never learn from the good things i do because i cant remember anything.

Hey guys, I see your all wallowing in a bit of measly self-pity.

The truth is that this section of the <a href="">PUA Forum</a>s is for working on Inner Game and Self-Confidence!

In my opinion AltaiDater and Shameless Stretch and some of the other guys who have posted... you seem to have a negative attitude towards certain things, especially about actions you have taken.

Being that this section works on inner game, I really recommend that you relax somewhere and get writing on what you feel when you are in a social situation and really imagine beautiful women around you and how that makes you feel. Literally break down those feelings.

You may feel that you do no deserve beautiful women, therefore you will perform negative actions stemming from your negative thoughts, thus causing you to 'lose' the opportunity to have what you want... at that point in time!

Now replace them with positive thoughts, everytime negative thoughts come up. Practice this persistently with positive actions every day for a good few years and voila! New person, new vision on life. Extreme... but true, huh?

This is the right place to start building up your game, to learn about who you are. And if you feel that Alcohol has messed things up, really crack down on it by seeing things in a persistently positive light. I recommend you work on your ATTITUDE!

Did I go too fast there?
I can take a few steps back if you guys think this means much to you.

Wooo!

.........and at this point, you've just started living a lie, congrats. While its honestly good on paper, it kind of reinforces what I just said -_-