i've pretty much had this thing for hot asian girls since i got into the whole import car tuner scene. n last friday me n my wing went out 2 our favorite bar. we go there maybe twice a week. anywayz the place was dead! maybe 20 people tops. It was mostly dudes and girls that i wouldn't even waste my time sarging. but, i noticed that the bartender was new and she was a smoking asian HB10 easily. you know, like the ones you see in the car magazines. so, i ordered a red bull vodka from her and she made it strong. after a few minutes i ordered a second 1. this one was stronger than the last. I hadn't tipped her much just the usual $2. so after that i started to run my routine on her. (its hard 2 run any routine when a girl is trying 2 serve other people drinks) but, i ran my routine flwalessly and got her number. sunday i texted her here's the convo

me: hola amigo'

hb10: heyy lol

me: so wuts poppin homie?

her:nuthin much..just cleaning my room

me: sounds boring..i'm on a space shuttle goin to the moon..actually i'm chillen by the pool wit sum friends

her:yeahh lol..me n sum friends r goin to the beach 2morro..so if u guys r bored come by

me: can't i got work 2morro

End of convo

two days later i wanted 2 see if she wanted 2 do sumhin wit me n my friends. so i sent her a text. heres the second convo.

me: wuts crackin gangsta? how wuz the beach?

i didn't get any response so i hit her up again a few hours later

me:yo, me n sum friends are goin to climb mt. everst and then go play min golf 2nite around 8. u should come

her: what?? thats crazy..i'm at work now..the beach was nicee...

me: haha..thats good..bad news tho, we had cancel on climbing mt. everst. A snow man ate our guide lol. but we're still goin mi golfin. u wanna go?

her: can't workin sorry

Endo of convo.

idk wut do guys think? do i have chance? and do u see any flaws or mistakes that i made?

thanks,
shane

First port of call, I wouldn't say you have picked her up but thats just semantics. Next I love the sorry working response she threw back at you, smart cookie. Finally I know a lot of folk say make texts playful and interesting btu you are seriously lacking anything, this girl gave a guy her number now he is goofing around, hurry up and arrange a day 2 or you will be screwed. Also stop chasing her (the texting again when she didn't respond) it shows she can have you so she will move on.

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Just to add to what Jaybot has already said. Don't ask the girl if she wants to meet up. She can easily say no. Getting a number doesn't really mean much if you haven't built enough attraction or comfort. She can give her number out to any guy her asks for it. Girls quickly get bored of a guy who appears to be chasing them and that's what you're coming across as. You mentioned she was a HB10 and worked in a bar. OMG, just imagine how much attention she's getting.

Instead, tell her you're going somewhere fun, and she should tag along. Don't make her the event. Perhaps even some mundane activity for your day 2 would do. Try to make a timebridge when you meet someone, set something up for you to do to prevent flaking. When you spoke to her in the bar she was in her emotional state, you had run a routine on her and it got you her digits, but when you text/call she's not in the same state and trying to set up a meeting will be challenging because you haven't built a connection or qualified her.

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no, i don't look like eddie guerro or drive a low rider lol

so how would one of guys go about the situation that i'm in?

^ That. Just drop her a quick call. I personally don't like using routines or preplanning what I will say, but if you really need to, try something similar to this as a skeleton:

Perhaps you can't stay on the phone long but you just wanted to tell her you are going do to whatever and she should tag along if she is adventurous.

Short. Simple. Can peak her interest.

to me your text are a little too playful, border line goofy. Unless thats what your going form you might wanna tone it down a little.

as for what to do, you might wanna set up something super chill so she doesnt blow you off. Like, tell your going shopping and want a girls opinion. Idk, anything really, point is to just get a face to face so you can run game. And if she really is as hot as you say, careful not to fall in the friend zone.

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yea, i get wut u guys are saying about the goofy text n shit. but i always thought that u wanted 2 make yurself seem "fun and interesting". rite?! so, thats wut i was kinda going after. and as far as calling her goes...i don't do phone calls. i don't even call my own family. i just text them. ya see, i got a speech problem where sumtimes i slurr my words n shit so people have a hard time understanding me sumtimes. it goes away after i get few drinks in me tho lol...i kinda wanna set up a group date tho. i figure if there's more people involved then she may feel more comfortable going. but, i'm afraid that a group date mite also put me in the friend zone.

ughh!!!!!...i just got back from the club. Me n wing went to our usual club. this is the same club where i met this HB10. She was there 2nite but she wasn't bartending. she was there with a cuople of friends. idk wtf happened! i went up 2 talk 2 her when she as the bar and she gave the cold shoulder. I couldn't keep a convo wit her or anything. I talk'd 2 her for maybe 2 minutes tops. after a bull shit excuse for a convo i told i'd catch up wit her later. after that she never said a word 2 me all nite, no eye contact, no smiling at me no nothing...wtf?! idk....if u guys can shed sum light on where i went wrong i would appreciate it. I try to learn from my mistakes to better myslef. I thought i was doing pretty good up until 2nite.

my guess you got her number before any real attraction or connection was built then goofed about with texts. You may have lost from the start

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