My first night sarging... Ended in tears! (Help!)



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PostPosted: Tue Jul 07, 2009 4:30 am 
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While canned routines can work slightly, if it's not legit and real material of your own you won't be able to convey that with as much confidence as if you owned your material.

For instance, I was out with 8 of my buddies and my friend HB7 took a picture of the group, and i see these 3 girls looking at us while we're taking the picture. I push my buddy into the set after trying to teach him some stuff and I was like I see you guys looking, you obviously want to take a picture with us. (Cocky Funny)

We take a picture and start talking to them. My buddy was winging excellent. We each acquired a target and I wound up isolating my target her friends even left her there with me and I kiss close my target, HB9 and he number closed his target HB9.

You need to get in there and be real. When you show nervousness because you don't have your own material you lose value. Check your body language, practice in front of mirrors. Go out and approach every girl you see at a local venue (mall, food store, flirt with girls in starbucks) doesn't matter what they look like. Just get out there and get comfortable with saying hello.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 07, 2009 2:52 pm 
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Dont be discouraged, you made a few mistakes but without trial and error youre not going to learn....i know your in the mind frame that u can do it right now but you need to slow yourself a bit. Do not approach a woman thinking of how to get her back to the bedroom. slow down and say to urself "all i want is her number, and im not even going to call her." if you get a girls number and do not call her, but then see her at that same club next week your in. i shows her that your not a creepy horn dog just trying to hit on every girl he sees and have sex with her. its networking and its great, it shows you have better things to do then call some random girl u met the club.

Now, some things u did wrong that u will never do again. Never, Ever ASK for there name, it shows to much interest and seems a little needy. anytime u have to ask for somthing u seem needy. Walk up to her give her your name and she will give you hers. Through this u can see the body language and IOI's she gives u just based on your looks and your a "good looking guy".
The next thing you did was ask her a question with two ends. Yes and No. u asked "hey do i know you". When she said no you found yourself stuck having to explain yourself. That question gave her no room to contemplate her answer, use her imagination, or even deliberate a subject. When u can find an opener that does one of those two things u get in her head and now you just have to keep the energy going.
I cant really tell if you were engaging all the girls in the group but make sure you are and that you are the life of the part, walk with a big smile and show them that even without them you are still gonna have a great time.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 07, 2009 6:23 pm 
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Hey man,

You doing fine, believe me.... You think that every PUA had gone smooth his way to the top?!! hahahaha, NO!! He thinks rejection is a fact that feeds him to get better.

I am gaming for 2 months now very intensive, daygame and night game. Now, yes finally now the puzzle is getting a form.

first, I sucked, my expectations were immense high. Though i was talking to myself no, you don;t have to expect anything, but when i got rejectede AGAIN, i was feeling very awful and my whole night was just fucked up, because of this.. :?

I know I know..... In the begin, because you haven;t approached many girls in your past this IS LOGICAL!!!

The way I see it is this, these are thoughts that are making me more and more confident. I try to see it as if beginning to ride a car. First you learn to steer the weel and you cant even shift gear or even brake (Not me haha ). When you steer more often you will become comfortable with it... Then you learn how to shift gear but you also have to combine it with steering. This is becoming difficult at first but after a while you begin to feel comfortable with it. You are frustrated when it doesn;t work. But you are going throughhh!! After 30 lessons or so (me; 80 lessosn haa) it all becomes natural.
So you need practice. You think you can ride a car only by reading about how to steer? No, you have to practice and practice. And.. You can learn by visualize as if in the moment itself, hypnosis....

I went out last night and # and kiss closed with two girls.. With two hb. I can;t even believe it mysels if i just started, but you will get there to mate...

Rejection:

1 Every single man and especially have gone through this!
2 You need it to become better
3 it is not personal, you are a good looking guy, you are spontaneous and you are outgoing I see
4 Rejection is not based on YOU but on communication. Every time I got rejected Immediately, IMMEDIATELY i relfect on myself, WHAT CAN I DO BETTER?
5 What is rejection, when do you call it rejection.. It isnt even rejection, because she doesn;ty even know you my friend!!
6 I got rejected MANY MANY MANY more times than you, hehe

I also concluded you have an external locust of control. You say, i need sex, i need approval, to become happy and brag about it. Dont do this, this is devastating I DID this myself and I became more nervous and nervous!

This line works for me > No one except for myself is in control of my emotions and feelings, no woman can control this part of me. I am an alpha male to the bone and i am going to feel more and more confident over time.!!!!

I really hope you will send your next field report man!!

You will get rejected saturday, the fact is how do you perceive it.. You are a winner, because you can handle all these situations!


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Dude we all make mistakes and crash and burn. Infact every PUA has gone through this frustration. That doesnt mean that you cry. I know how you feel but crying is not your solution.

Keep putting yourself out there.


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