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| Frankel | PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 3:31 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Jul 13, 2009 3:27 pm Posts: 1 Location: DC | | So I have been practicing my game for a few months now. I have had a lot success. It's been great. But I got into this weird situation...
So I get a girl back to her place and sex close. Things are fantastic. When I leave, she jumps into my arms, we embrace and she says how much she can't wait until the next time we meet.
Then...nothing. She doesn't return calls, or emails.
Um...how is this possible? Listen, I know for a fact I am good. It is definitely not my seduction or my skill level. She loved every minute of it.
I understand the idea...that after the fact, the girl thinks I am just a "player" or she is upset with herself for letting me get with her so soon. But how do I remedy this? Is there a way? If I would actually like to see the girl again, is there a way to prove that I am not just another player? I do not want to resort to the AFC "aww but I'm not like all those other guys" routine. That just screams insincere.
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| Jav | PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 3:53 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sun Dec 28, 2008 8:59 pm Posts: 1929 Location: the moon | | Instead of wanting to 'apologize' for you being you, be comfortable with it.
I don't know how many times you called/emailed, but if she doesn't respond she has her own reasons. Who knows, I'm not psychic. Maybe she's wanting to see how far you'd go trying to contact her, girls are weird like that.
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| Liquid_Steel | PostPosted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 12:10 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Jun 07, 2009 5:26 am Posts: 124 | | I would think that just calling her at all shows that your not a player.
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| Redkid | PostPosted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 3:50 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sun Apr 26, 2009 3:47 am Posts: 92 AOL: Twilight+Hybrid | | Yeah I would think so to...Like Jav said, girls are wierd. - Redkid _________________ I'll rise to the top yet. Just watch me.
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| Ethan Hewitt | PostPosted: Wed Jul 15, 2009 9:00 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Jan 12, 2009 4:46 am Posts: 122 Website: http://puahongkong.blogspot.com/ Location: Hong Kong | | To assist here, could you possibly tell us a few more details like how long you'd know her before the sex happened and what you had done with her leading up to sex.
In my experience, if I have had a sex with a girl too soon without building any comfort or trust with her then after sex we're not going to see each other again.
Now, I know some girls may appear like they're really into you. But they were in that emotional state when they enter into having sex with you, the day after they're not, maybe they get buyer's remorse or something. Perhaps they're testing you to see if you come running or if you've used them for a ONS. Of course, there are exceptions, I've had a few girls who have literally fallen head over heels in what they thought was love with me because of having sex like it was a commitment and a display of my true feelings. Yikes. Yeah, that was a rough landing for them.
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| AFCJet | PostPosted: Thu Jul 16, 2009 11:33 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Jul 11, 2009 6:32 pm Posts: 17 | | stop calling and move on, i doubt that she is the one for you considering you only knew her for a night anyways.
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