You've got to be fucking kidding me. This is the girl you've been writing about all this time?

This girl is a non-respectful little bitch who needs to be punished for her dirty little mouth, not some girl who deserves to be taken out on a fun date by a fun guy. I take back everything I wrote in the other topics. Drop this one. Again, you're a young man, you have plenty of time to meet many other zero's in your life. You might as well as reduce that total number by one while you have the chance.

A girl being bitchy when you JUST meet her is one thing. This one is just a plain old loser with bad social habits.

Or you can continue hanging out with her and continue figuring out how to keep your balls intact.

STOP RIGHT NOW

... Woah Bro! Stop it right now...
You sound like you got oneitis BAD.

She got you whipped bad, so she thinks she can do
whatever she want or she just an asshole ( and honestly
I think she might be).

This is not healthy at all. You didnt clerify weather she is your g/f or not,
so Im guessing she not. Im guessing she strings you along, to make her
feel better.

You need to get more friends or hang out with your other friends. Get away
from her see how good it feels to not have some messing with you all the
time. When you hang with all she does is make fun or you, and from what
you posted its not a funny way its an asshole way. AND YOUR AFRAID TO
HURT HER FEELINGS! You need to put her in her place. You need to show
her your not gonna take her shit, a moment that will show from this moment
foward things change. Hurt her feeling if you have to, you need to tell her off.
Curse if you have to. Get your point across! If she makes fun of you dont take
it, tell her to stop if she dosent your gone. Do what you have to the bigger the
better (in this case).. And this wont be easy it wont happen over night. Its gonna
take forever. Everytime she acts up stand up to her.


OR
You could do the easier way... and move on get over her. Things change
you have oneitis bad so the relationship is never gonna be healthy. She
also sounds pretty mean, you dont need that kinda negativity in your life!



Not trying to be harsh, and didnt mean to
ramble but I really think you should think
about pushing her out of your inner circle.
You can still be civil if your not best friends



-Myth

Kasabi and Myth took the words right out of my mouth.

With all do respect, stop being a pussy. Grab the bull by the balls. - Redkid

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Ya I'm about to just forget about being nice and not hurting her feelings and just do it if I have to I just wanna let her know I'm done taking shit and if it does ruin the friendship and we cant be best friends anymore then what ever you guys are right I'm still young and have time to meet plenty of people.

I can't believe what a pussy you are. Are you really scared to lose friendship with a girl that is treating you like a little bitch ? Please, man, behave like a man. Actually, not as a man but as a normal human being. Everyone deserves to be respected. If she is not respecting you, than pay her with the same coin. Take the friendship to a lower level. You have to show her in a clever way that she isn't that important and that you are willing to stop your friendship with her if she doesn't respect you. There are subtle ways to do this. For example, she starts talking to you on msn. You don't reply and after 10 minutes you go offline without telling her anything. If she gets angry with that, than just tell her a story that you had to go jogging or something and you were in a hurry. I say jogging because it is a lame excuse that tells her that jogging is more important than a conversation with her.

The worse she treats you, the more you ignore her. On the other hand, the better she starts treating you, the better you have to start treating her. She has to feel that she will be punished for mistreating you and rewarded if she behaves well. It is that simple. If at the end the friendship stops, than she wasn't really interested in a serious friendship anyway. Look for other friends than.

This is my opinion.

ya I know I know trust me I'm trying now, just earlier I said something she thought was rude but I told her "cause you were never rude to me right?..." and normally she would respond with something even more bitchier but she just changed subject, for the past 2 days I've been not taking her shit and letting her know so I think shes slowly starting to realise I don't care about her feelings if shes gonna be a dick to me but at the same time I'm nice and reward her if she is just like you said.

GREAT !!! Don't forget to keep us informed about the evolution of your relationship with her.

Young man,

You're doing it again. You're trying to THINK your way through. Look. . . You see shit on the ground and you walk around it. You don't pick it up, sniff it, think about eating it. Think about the sauces you'll spread, the recipe you'll use. . . You don't think about how much more palatable it will be if you marinade it.

THIS ONE is a piece of shit. Let IT the fuck go already. What's the matter with you? Is this piece of shit the only girl in your entire town?

LOL that makes sense too but how do I forget about her when we talk daily, we go to the same school and have classes together for the year again starting in september like how would someone go about avoiding all that? how do I go from talking to her alot (she begins the convos btw) to cold turkey without it being weird?

Who cares if its wierd? If she not your friend anymore,
it dosent really matter... Also if you have any other "friends"
like her get rid of them too

Some people are giving tips on how to stick with her, which, it seems, is what you want. Others are just saying cut your losses.

It's completely up to you what you choose to do. It's completely possible that she's a sweet person inside and just needs to be broken in. The one thing that is certain: you need to stop taking her shit.

You deserve better, and you're taking the steps to make it happen. The only two realistic outcomes are that she either leaves or smartens up. Both are positive at this point.

Stay strong, you can do it.

I'm with kasabi on this one. I think I friend-dated without actually dating the same girl (read: bitch) about a month back. Next time she makes you feel like a bitch, just flat out tell her to fuck off, you've been taking her shit for no reason for long enough and you don't deserve it. You'll be doing her a favor, too, since she probably treats everybody that way and needs to learn some social skills; that she can't treat people like shit and get away with it. Make it dramatic, you'll have a good story to tell at least. You don't owe this girl any courtesy if she can't show you any. Trust me, you'll feel much better once you scrape that shit off your shoe; you won't have that bad smell lingering over you all the damn time you're together.

ya you guys are def right, well when we see each other on friday I'm just gonna let her know I'm not taking shit and if it doesn't workout then what ever lol. The past few days though I have been more Alpha Male than Beta every time she tries to give me shit I simply shut her down and recently she hasn't tried to do that in the past 2 days so I think shes getting the message slowly, and about feeling good, you are right when I did shut her down I left her speechless and it felt so good but of course me being friendly by nature I wanted to be nicer and maybe apologize after but nope I controlled myself and didn't even bother to. Now I notice shes messaging/txting/calling a lot more than usual and shes the one initiating conversations instead of me having to be like "hey whats up?" or something. I completely stopped opening a convo with her first. Feels good, but ya friday its all or nothin she needs to know where I stand. Thanks for the advice guys.

Ey, that's why the community is here bro. - Redkid

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JUST NOW she needed money to borrow for something right, and shes like k so will i be getting my payment or will we never be seeing each other again, and I was like "you would throw our friendship away over money?" and when I was about to shut her down instantly and say "it was nice knowin ya" she changed the subject, I think she KNEW that I was about to drop a bomb or something LMAO. like I HATE when girls do that they just say something and change subject before you can respond its annoyinggggg