Hey guys,
so heres the thing. i've studied a lot about body language and human interaction/behavior and thought i should share this with you guys.
If you want to know whether a girl thinks you are being 'considered', just look at her.
If she looks back at you, turns down and then looks away: shes interested.
if she looks to the side right away without looking down, then sorry boys, shes probably not interested.
this unconscious response has been studied in girls. try it. it works.
and try to post your experiences after trying this out.
peace out.

whaat?

that was the stupidest post ever.

basicly u just said that if a girl makes eye contact, shes probably interested.

ok,
you're new so i'm gonna assume that you're ignorant and ignore your brashness.

anyway, its what happens AFTER the girl makes eye contact that matters.

like i said, if she looks down and away AFTER making eye contact, she liked what she saw.
if she just looks to the side, AFTER making eye contact, she didnt.

still stupid?

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ok

but what if a girl looks to the side, after making eye contact.
then glances back at you.

ok, lets break this up and analyse.

you initiate and make eye contact good.
she returns it, but looks to side- bad

so, if this stuff is true (and i think it is), you should realize that she isnt interested in what she is seeing.

so if she glances back at you, and sees you looking at her, im pretty sure shell think youre a creep. shed probably be thinking, "why is the creepy loner staring at me"

the best thing to do would be to gauge the situation with said technique and decide on a game plan from there.
if she does the right thing, then keep making eye contact.
if she doesnt do the right thing, think up a new strategy.

btw, the fastest and easist way to try this is while waiting/ commuting in a bus/train etc

hope this helps.

this may apply when a girl behaves NATURALLY, it may not when shes putting on an act.
the looking down - thing is subconscious, so when shes consciously controlling her behaviour because she has a stage fright kind of mindset in that situation then you cant tell anything from what she does. and it is not always that easy telling wether she's acting.
just wanted to add that, i do agree with the basic concept though.

Whilst eye contact can be considered an IOI. I'd be wary about how much emphasize you put on it. Depending on their background, culture, personality etc different people handle eye contact differently. I had a LTR with a HB9 who hated eye contact, She told be she couldn't handle it. At the other end of the stick, I'm living in a place where people stare at you no matter what, even if you look at them they still keep staring. It doesn't always mean what you think it might be. Some people just like looking at others and others don't.

If you really want to know whether a girl likes you, talk to her, then see her behaviour and her response to you. Don't think so much about where her eyes go, strokes her hair, fidgets etc.

thats a good point.

You need to quote a source for this. I've heard all kinds of stuff like this from NLP/Kinesics guys but it rarely stacks up when you test it out. At best, most are just % moves without being cast-iron indicators.

There are very few, if any, universal indicators about what something is thinking, at least when you ignore things like micro-expressions which aren't normally visible. People are individuals and are wired in different ways.

I'd just like to add a few more comments about eye contact.

Simply put. If you look at her and catch her stare, and hold it, smile, she returns it. That's a good sign.

If you catch her looking at you and she gives you the vertical scan from your head to your feet then she's checking you out. If she smiles, then it's a good sign.

If you're in the game, and you see her giving you the horizontal scan where she looks from one eye to the other then she wants to kiss.

But really, look for other 101's like, you engage her and she engages back. Or she acts friendly to you or she keeps talking to you after you use C&F or after 3-5 mins of talking she is looking at you not moving around.

I've come to learn that what a woman shows you before you engage her doesn't neccessarily tell you her interest level. It's what she does as you engage her that matters.

Whats interesting is that all body language books say girls are very subtle when theyre checking guys out, but ive found that to be complete BS.
they say its cause girls have 'peripheral vision'.

anyway, whenever i notice girls checking me out, their vertical scan is VERY obvious,
what do you guys think?

I think this is all BS. I remember one girl that saw me, looked aside with a bitchy face. A few weeks later one of my friends told me she liked me. I was kinda shocked and couldn't believe it because I was 100 % sure that she didn't like me.

I have my own theory and it goes as follows:

1. You can never tell if a girl doesn't like you based on her facial expression. Even if her expression is cold and bitchy, it might turn out afterwards that she likes you but she is just playing hard to get.

2. You can tell by looking at a girls facial expression if she likes you. You have to pay close attention in the way she looks at you. I can't explain it in words but sometimes when you are making eye contact with a girl you can just sense that her eyes have this "I am prepared to surrender"-look.

Anyone agrees with this ?

DonPua,

You seemed to have contradicted yourself, you said that you can never tell if a girl doesn't like you from her facial expression. But then you go on to say You can tell by looking at a girls facial expression if she likes you.

But whatever, as I've already iterated. I'd just use eye contact and facial expressions as a vague IOI. Some people are comfortable with it and some aren't. I'll be honest here and say that one of my weaknesses is eye contact. I sometimes find myself looking away when someone catches my eye. It's human nature, but you just need to fight that urge when you catch the eye of a hottie.

However, I have some friends who are good at the dating scene but they will choose only to approach girls that they have made eye contact with, it helps with their approach they feel if they have made solid eye contact with a smile. I can open girls with eye contact here in Hong Kong in clubs quite easily and remember this is my weak point. Across a busy club, you see a girl at the bar, you give her the eye, she sees you, she smiles, you smile. It's on, they'll come to you or you go to them. Let the fun begin.