(no homo)
Obviously not in the case of a girlfriend, but a randomer. You just wish she could disappear.

All hornyness just instantly evaporates and is replaced by the sudden urge to ignore the girl, have a shower, and GTFO.

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The “Four Fs” are the four basic drives that animals (including humans) are evolutionarily adapted to be good at: fighting, fleeing, feeding, and reproduction.

I have felt this before, and it's typically a function of one or two things:

1) You're fucking for the wrong reasons. Many of the times I've felt this way it's because I was hooking up with a girl not strictly out of a desire for her or to pleasure her, but to fill some hole in myself. Girls you pick up immediately after a bad breakup fit this category.

or

2) You need to up the quality of women you sleep with, and I'm not just talking about looks here. Most guys probably aren't like this, but in order for me to be turned on completely, I have to be stimulated on multiple levels. Being hot just ain't enough--I need a girl to be whip-smart, sweet, assertive and witty even if she's just a fuck buddy.

If the first thought that enters your head after you roll off of her is "Welp, there's another one to add to the list," you should probably examine my two points above.

Hope this helps.

Your boy,
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I think this is very common and its classic.
I used to have a really hot gf. But after a couple of months I started to get the same feeling your are talking about. (The same feeling I too have felt after just having random sex with an attractive girl).
Anyway, I realised that I didn't wanne stay in the bed with her and do the whole "after-hug-thing".
So I created a little test wich I still use when I have a hard time figuring out
if I really like someone or if its just a physical attraction.

1. Pick up your cell
2. Look at the girls number (do I wanne call her and arrange a meet?)
remember your answer and continue to step 3.
3. Jerk off.
4. Pick up your cell
5. Look at the girls number (do I still wanne see her?)
If you create a real strong mental picture of a girl your involved
with in a state of complete non-hornyness (is that even a word?)
you'll know what you REALLY want with a girl.

And if you dont wanne experience the feeling you describe
I suggest you try it.

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Vino, vedi, vici.
I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

I've felt this a few times, once was when I was inside a girl, and I just realised it was all wrong, that was during my period of shagging just for the sake of it.

It depends how much you like the girl basically, like if you can talk to her for hours without getting bored, or you're just talking to her because she's hot. I dont mind sleeping over.

But a few times, I just think I want to leave, and they are holding onto you wanting you to stay, so I usually say I've got to go, as my sister needs my car for work in the morning.

My test is usually like the poster before me, say I'm chatting to a girl on the net or the phone and I'm getting worked up, I'll have a wank, and if I still want to meet her it shows I must like her, if I cant be arsed, it was just my sexual urge making me want to see her.

I've done that myself. It's great advice!

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The “Four Fs” are the four basic drives that animals (including humans) are evolutionarily adapted to be good at: fighting, fleeing, feeding, and reproduction.

Agreed. It's the STR equivalent to the LTR test (where you look at your girl when she's totally at her worst - doing the dishes, just got up and not showered and made up etc - and ask yourself "is this the girl I want to spend my life with?")