Hi thank you for reading my post.

my problem is getting this girl to makeout with me.
i think thats very bad....
her body is giving me all the signs because shes always paralized when i do them
im breathing and kissing on her neck.
im whispering in her ear.
im kissing spots that ive read are supppose to make her turned on in the face area.
and im doing alot of kino in the waist region and stroking her back and neck
all in private btw.
and when it comes time to kiss
she lets me.
but when we kiss its only for a little bit. then she pulls away telling me that shes freaking out.

i have no idea to get her to open her mouth to make out.

if anyone has any tips
to initiate the making out
that would be very helpful.

thank you very much

Some questions that just come to mind. Does she have a boyfriend? How long have you known her? How did you pick her up?

I guess really what I want to gauge to help answer your question is her comfort level. Maybe you just havent spent enough time in the earlier stages. All women are different. I have had all kinds, ones I kiss in 2 or 3 hours, ones that take months literally. One chick even explained to me her 'level theory' on the men she sees and how she makes them wait for certain things (kinda nuts in the head if you ask me, but yes I did bypass her system haha)

Little more background info maybe some of us can help

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Sometimes it can be really hard to get someone in a state of comfort when they have "issues" or whatever it might be.

How old is she? Is she experienced? Has some idiot forced her self on her at any point?

A have a really good friend (girl) who was almost raiped at one time, and of course she was seriously fucked-up for a long time.
She would freak-out if someone touched her in a sexual way
and she had a really hard time to show emotions in a physical way - like kissing.
Getting a girl to kiss you can sometimes be even harder then having sex, if she has a block from prier bad experience.

If you like her and feel like investing in this girl, I suggest you talk to her.

Good luck.

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thank you for both of your replies.


ive known her for a while. but we only recently started talking.
im very sure she doesnt have a boyfriend.
from what ive seen.
she has no experience at all with kissing.
and she has no past sexual mind breaking mentalia.

so i guess you could say this person is new to this stuff.

she has no problem kissing.
is there a way to introduce it?

and if anyone of you could help.
how do exactly start making out?
when you kiss do you just slip the tongue in any time?
what if its blocked with teeth? how do you know to get it open?

thank you again.

If the girl is really unexperienced I suppose the only way for you to succeed
would be to create as much comfort as possible.
Then lead her into what your doing, step by step, maybe use vords to describe
whats going on and whats about to happen to make her feel safe.

If she thinks its a big deal to make out with someone, make her feel it isn't.
Maybe level with her and tell her about the first time you made out with a girl
(some kind of total disaster story so she wount feel any pressure..)

If its GF-material we're talkin about, just let it take some time.
If she likes you and trusts you it'll happen.

Good luck.

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I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered