so heres my dillemma .. its pretty fucked up i have to say. i'm good looking, been told by many ppl my whole life, and i have a really good muscular build, ppl tell me im jacked all the time. HOWEVER i'm 5'5.

I view myself as almost deserving a very hot girlfriend, between my looks and personality. but now heres my problem

if i'm talking to an average girl, i think to myself .. shes not hot enough

if i'm talking to a really hot girl, i'm thinking to myself .. theres no way shed go for me, i'm too short

the result .. lose lose .. and i keep going on thinking i need a hot GF. its so fucked up

i think part of the problem is that i always hear girls on tv and shit talking about how they like tall guys, and when i see a hot girl, i just think in my head that she probably already has her mind made up about what type of guy shes gunna date, and when she sees a short guy she immediately is going to dismiss him as a choice for a bf

definatleiy need help getting over this

Seriously man, don't worry about it

Think about other short guys who are cleaning up. You think Tom Cruise looks at a 10 and says "shit I'm way too short, I could never get her"

HELL NO

Nobody's perfect, but the most important thing is confidence. It doesn't matter how tall the guy next to you is if you act like you're 6'5''

yea i know its just hard .. b/c i always think a girl looks at me and this is waht i think goes thru her head ... "hes really cute, hes pretty hot, but i just coudln't date him b/c hes too short for me"

A woman doesn't wake up in the morning thinking "hmm... I really DON'T want to meet the man of my dreams today"

If you come off as confident, funny, desired, and in control, then it doesn't matter about anything else. If you're good looking, a woman won't care about your height.


-Red Hot

yes, but i mean arent there women that would never get caught w/ a short guy? i mean its like how we dont go for fat chicks ... they don't go for short men

Not all girls want a guy that is 6'3". There are loads of girls that will go out and be seen with a guy of your height. I seen 5'10" girls with heels on and they are taller than the guy they are with and they have no problems with it. Your problem is your inner game. Not the girls.

Sly:

You could be fat, but there are a lot of fat guys who still get a lot of girls. Girls can overlook individual aspects of a package if they like the package over all- just give them an appealing package.

If someone doesn't want you JUST because of your height, then fuck them- their loss.

Remember, "SHE is the contestant, YOU are the prize"


-Red Hot

dude me and you are the same dude im fuking 5'3 and i bee goign out with fuking hot ass girls hb 8 and even a couple models here an there im fuking hot because chiks always tell me that ya now anyways i was just dating this amazing girl wich was like 5'6 and im 5'3 but i dorent give a damn she digged me and i digged her and you should care what people think remember keep your alpha male mentality later good luck man

Okay first of all go slap yourself, now go look in a mirror and slap your self again. Did that? No well slap yourself for not doing it. Dude seriously it dont matter how tall you are, i mean come on imagine it, us little people dating chicks taller then us, we get more respect then heck. A tall guy with a girl shorter then him, eh that`s normal, but i mean a short guy with a HB right beside him, you simply don`t see that everyday. If they don't like you for your height, well they can screw them self's, you're no average short guy, your a freaking PUA, you are the Alpha, get that to your head mate!

-Fate

mate, stop being a wuss. I agree with the other posters here, height really does not matter.

I was recently with a HB8.5 who is 6" and I am 5" 8'. She said that some guys shorter than her felt intimidated by her height and what she liked about me was the fact that I was not.

Seriously, when first read your post the name Tom Cruise came to mind but some clearly beat me to it. As long as the rest of your package is sold HBs will overlook the height thing.

This is definitely a case of sorting out your inner game.

Best of luck mate.

When you do not conduct market research your product will iniately fail!

Don't assume, look at Tom Cruise (as mentioned) if you have seen him in films, read The Game (which is probably under your pillow at night) you will know it is how you carry your self! You think 6"5 people have all the fun?

It is just a characteristic like a guy deciding between two potentials in a group which one has hairy legs, big ears, etc. But we usually see what they do have and analyse whether it compensates the characteristic. So if you walk around like you own a 21 inch cock and our funny, can hold a conversation without providing your bank details then she won't care if you are qualified midget in height.

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This is so damn true. I am only 5'8" and I used to struggle with this all the time. Eventually, once your inner game is mastered you come to think of it as, would I want to be with a girl that tall, rather than worrying about what she thinks, or even caring. Handle your game the right way and your height will be the last thing she thinks about. Good luck bro

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I'm 5'6" and have dated women that are 6'1". I usually get assumed for being 5'9" because of my personality. Here's a good opener for you to use with your height...

...go straight up to the tallest girl in the entire room who is with a bunch of her friends (she has to be 6' or above) do the inverse of Mystery's "Does this shirt make me look tall?" Being so short and showing that kind of confidence, you'll get introduced to all of her friends as the funny guy that is original. Follow this up with a rule for her, "Keep a running tally of guys that mention your height tonight and as soon as #15 comes along, tell him to buy you a drink." By now, you've opened and introduced them to a fun game that will change their evening. You should be in cruise control from here...

Yo meng,

I'm 5'4 and I've dated a chick taller than me and she wears heels she looks even taller. But People were lookng at us like we don't mix but that doesn't matted cuz she wasn't leaving with anyone else other than te shortest dude at the bar, me. Some chicks actually dig shorter guys and we have an advantage bcuz we are less intimidating. It's awesome being a little man. And every chick should want one. You can't change the hand you were dealt but you can change your the way you play the hand.

This ones for te short guys!