if you studied Chi Gong(Chi Kung/Qi Gong) you soon realize why masturbation isn't so great after all.

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This tip makes a lot of sense if you check out the book Think and Grow Rich There is a chapter in this book called "Sex Transmutation", and basically what that means is that the sexual desire we feel is our greatest desire, and when we can harness that desire it pushes us forward to accomplish things.

Think about it, the smartest animals in nature are humans and dolphins, and both receive pleasure from sex. Other less developed animals do not-- one could argue that because of this sex desire we are more motivated to accomplish things.

If you have read The Game, you know that this is a book Mystery references, and it makes sense because the principle of Sex Transmutation falls directly in line with the rest of his evolutionary based theories.

I don't know about you, but I am definitely more prone to approach a girl if I haven't had any sexual activity in a week. I completely agree with this principle and I advise everyone to try it. If anything, it helps you to practice self-control!

I think the only risk is over-fapping.

If you go on a marathon fapping session - say, 5 a day for a few days - then it will have a huge negative impact on you for days after. You'll feel weak and timid and lazy.

Once a week sounds good.

I'm happy enough with once every two days or so, though I might try to stop doing that.

I once went a month, and holy shit, when I jizzed it was like my dick was throwing up litres

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The “Four Fs” are the four basic drives that animals (including humans) are evolutionarily adapted to be good at: fighting, fleeing, feeding, and reproduction.

Never studied it but theres nothing wrong with knocking one off every now and then. Some of us just dont have that kind of self-control either though.

I failed this.....3 times today.

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"That's how you become great, man. Hang your balls out there!"--Copy store clerk (Jerry Maguire)

To each his own...

Everyones gotta bust one sometime, if you don't you eventually have a nocturnal emission or sleep-masturbation. However I would find myself on the other extreme more often than not how-to-stop-masturbating-vt46930.html?h ... masturbate and finally broke the habit.

The whole "set a jerk date with yourself" is fucked up because youre basically rewardng yourself for not getting laid. Good luck with self control in that frame because you are withholding an experience you might as well just give yourself now because you planned on doing it later anyway. If you want to do it less don't make plans with yourself, but allow it to happen spontaneously at a certain frequency.

A new guideline I set for myself is a few times a month. I determined thats a good frequency to replenish my man juice at the same time conserving and multiplying my sexual energies and being ready to get laid anytime.

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making myself horny doesnt help my game, it fucks it up

girls can feel it when you're tryin too hard, so ill stick to my 1 per day tyvm

it totally works, it feels like you have so much more energy..also i feel less tired in the morning as ridiculous as it sounds. Actually I'm pretty sure that in some cultures temporary celibacy is rumored to have super powers. I know that sounds absurd but you should try it. Edit: I will forewarn you guys, if you do it for too long and you have a chance of getting laid watch yourself because sometimes the desperation shows. Oh and after you do it for a longer time (2 weeks or so) you really don't feel quite as horny at random points in the day. Just my two cents.

Guys, wait a sec

Think a minute, you wanna follow a guy that's been subject to depressions and suicidal tendencies ?

You go to the beliefs section for inner game and confidence and then you land in here and post about masturbating ?

there's no dignity in masturbating and it's the spring to the kind of diseases the doc has no idea about why and how you got it.

You want confidence and the so-called "inner game" that is a sick concept cause it's a rotten ready-to-think box ? Try respecting "the woman" in general and agree to committ and give her what she deserves for her investing and committing with you and then, keep your dignity and honor, and you know why ?

Because in that story, you end up being the strippers, that very thread shows it

But answer to that..

So you basically guys go around messing up yourself in a section and try to fix it in another ?

i lold



right before when i was first starting out, i didnt yank it for like 2-3 months. thats right. 2-3 months. i was disgusted at porn and didnt have much interest in it anymore. it hit me on a subconscious level, later consciously, that sex is a reward. masturbation is simulated sex. you can sit around "rewarding" yourself all day long but then you'll see a girl you want and feel like you dont deserve her. i think celibacy from the hand is one of the best things you can do for yourself. as a result of not yanking for 2-3 months, i was more positive, more creative, a funner person to be around, and it actually got me laid with little effort. in fact some girl (the girl i ended up banging and dating for 3 months) asked how many times i whack it in a card game, and i told them not in months, the truth, that i wasnt into porn. ill give less credit to pickup, some credit to having a natural sense of humor, some more credit to being decent looking and well dressed, and a lot of credit to NOT whacking it like 90% of people in the world, and 99% of the losers on the internet. like someone said above, if you study chi gong, you might understand. not that believe in that stuff, but i believe there is a wisdom to spending energy on productive things, and on rewards. ill admit i havent stayed true to my "diet" but just from writing this post i can tell you that ill be going back and resisting temptation for the best.

its really not that hard with the right mindset. the mindset is: porn is bad for me, it is a drug, and its worse than drugs, and im not interested in watching women get paid to take their clothes off and pretend to have an orgasm. its degrading, unrealistic, unappealing (doesnt arouse me), and i value myself too much to be like the next loser who sits at home, tucked away in his room with the lights off, living with something to hide, lethargically dreaming his life away and slowly being forgotten because he literally rubbed himself out of people's minds by being dull and awkward. if that isnt motivation to keep your briefs on and stay away from that forbidden URL, you're probably in trouble.

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The best PUA advice is also the best fighting advice.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ijCSu87 ... rn-1r-4-HM

Have you guys watched Way of the Gun? He says something about Stalin's trick, meaning that Joseph Stalin did masturbate but without ejaculating, to get himself more "jacked up" and energetic.
Now im not questioning if that was the reason why they kicked Germans back to Berlin, but did someone try that and did it work?

I've heard of Stalin's trick, I think in porn they call it 'edging','peaking', or 'surfing'.. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm_control