Hey Guys!

Haven’t posted in a long while but I’ve got a problem I want to bring to the forums, blowjobs. I’ve always wanted to get a blowjob, and I finally think I have girl that would go for it but I don’t know how to transition into it.

I’ve none this girl a couple month just because we had classes together in school, and we’ve gone out once with just me and her (I did not kiss her yet). My car has been in the shop for a while now and she would be the one driving if we went out again.

I have a second hangout already set up with her and I’m defenitly going for the kiss this second time. How would you go about transitioning from making out to her giving me a blowjob if things are going well, do you just start making out and hope she goes down on you (doubt it cuz girls like to be led but idk.)

Any experiences and advice would be helpful

Thanks

I can't blame you for wanting the BJ. I don't know if I've ever only gone for the BJ, in my experience either she will do it because she doesn't want to have sex yet or because your about to have sex. I usually say something like "can you get me warmed up" -as well as teasing her and telling her I won't f her till she does it. I digress though for just getting a bj that's something I've experienced more in LTR where they will just do it spontaneously or with very little encouragement.

Kino escalate, don't seem too needy, get her sexually charged, patience is a virtue

I never thought of it like that but i guess it is a form of LTR.

In that the girls that have given me blow jobs it was something that they did without me asking. And it was usually because they weren't ready for sex....or in my AFC days because I wasn't pushing fighting through the LTR.

Good luck...it's pretty awesome.

I'm going to post my advice although I only have experience with this from a long-time girlfriend.

What I did was to build up to sex, then when we were both horny, I would refuse to have sex with her and say I wanted to play a game first: we were to make each other as horny as possible without intercourse, and whoever caved first lost. Now hope that she will use this as a trick to make you horny. If this doesn't work, use SilverTongue's line.

Then (this is the most important step) when she does go down on you, even if it is just to warm you up, pretend like it's really great even if it might not be if she hasn't done it before. Twist and moan, the whole show. Also smile.

In my relationship this taught her that if she wanted to really please me, she'd give me a blowjob. So every time she felt inferior in bed, she would go downtown.

I remember that it was terrible at first. She actually couldn't make me cum, but I pretended like I didn't want to cum in her mouth and bullshit like that. The way I fixed this, was to wait until she was comfortable with blowing me and then teach her what was good and what was bad; not by telling her, but by moaning and smiling when she did something right and giving no reaction when she did not.

I'm not sure what to make of this, but I'll tell you anyway: I never actually asked her to give me a blowjob but she did it pretty often anyway. And she was initially a virgin and before this routine, she was grossed out by blowjobs.


Hope this helps at all, but remember that it has only been run on one girl in a relationship. =)

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I don't know how well this would work... but

there is a song by blink 182 called "It would be nice to have a blowjob" lol

try playing the song - sing along to it its only 30 seconds long i think... joke around with the idea... especially the last line which goes "... from your mum!!!" haha

look her in the eye and say from your mum!!

don't get all serious about it. its a good way of putting the idea into her head anyway.

then start on kino afterwards and build up from there...

I don't know....I've never given anyone a blowjob before....LOL.

Most times I've gotten em...usually following me giving them some....if you eat you get the treat.....so learn to tornado tongue!

Her, after my initial eatery..."What you give you shall receive." Hope that helps....

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