Here is interesting story. Many of you will identify with this. Here is some background first.

One year ago, I met someone online. When I showed up, I realized this girl was even better looking than on photograph's. Her voice sounded very sweet while at the same time she managed to convey a naughty vibe. This girl was a perfect 10, a true high value female. Educated, interesting, funny, challenging, casually dressed but very aware of her sexuality. She was 1.80m tall (without shoes), long dark brown hair, big blue eyes and a facial color that revealed her perfect health. I managed to hold my breath and saliva in my mouth for the next three hours. At midnight, the bar tender came to us and explained that the bar was closing and we needed to move.

Me being an average frustrated chump at the time asked her on our way to the car: 'so what do you think about it? Tell me honestly." Can you believe it? I can not help myself but laugh when I remember this haha. I mean the girl stayed there with me till we literally got thrown out of the bar as it was late (it wasn't weekend so the bars close earlier) and still I spit up something disgusting as this. She told me she had a good time and that we would meet again soon. I believed her and the days and weeks after I msg-ed and called her till the point that she almost started to ignore me. After some 3 weeks I managed to enforce a second date which of course led to nothing. Luckily, at the second date I kept cool and made it fun as the first date, but it was already too late because I screwed up in the meantime. The day after the second date I asked her to meet again soon after she responded with: "listen, I am having a really rough time at the moment, I don't think we will meet that soon'. Finally, I got things clear at this point and left the girl alone (she must have been very delighted about this:)).

I erased the email address from my MSN Messanger but didn't block her to see me when I am online. This prevented me to bore this girl every time I log in on my MSN and she is around too. So, I completely shut myself off and only responded when she initiated the chat first. Somewhere a this point I heard of the PUA community and start exploring it. In the mean time I kept contact with her but in a very nonchalant way. Also, I extended my network of women which I game regularly, having me become unneedy and confident. Also teasing, negging and all other stuff became than a part of me.

This girl kept vague contact with me in the mean time. However last month, she is really pushing it to meet together and have a drink. Every time she hints this, I respond in vague manner having her believe that I will call her when I have time. However, I never called but implied subtly every time I spoke to her online that we should meet and go for a drink. Each time she was very responsive to this. Last two weeks I had her initiating a chat with me online, but I wasn't around to respond or I was gaming others. Finally, she said: "man you are never around, I think I will have to pick a number . Let me know when you are there or just call me some time". After this I got with her on the phone, but only teasing and being vague again till the point she asked: "when are we going for a drink? when is a good time for you? let me know!". A few hours later I told her when to be there to which she agreed. The date is taking place tomorrow evening.

The girl is very eager to go out for a drink with me. Back in time, she was appalled by me due to my neediness and my hitting on her. The fact that she is very eager is a little bit strange. This girl has social proof and has no need to get together with someone she saw just once in the last year and went twice on a date earlier (two months ago I was at a party where she also was. I didn't know she will be there. I was able to display social proof and preselection as there were a few beautiful women in my social circle and on my arm). The truth is that my game with her was very tight during the last weeks. Despite of my solid game, her eagerness is still confusing me a bit. This has mainly to do with her height which is 1.80m without shoes on. I am 1.80m tall as well, but as any girl, I assume she likes to put on shoes/heels with at least 1 inch extra which is not what I prefer. By the way, during the two dates I had with her previuosly, she was wearing flat shoes, appearing us to look approximately the same height.

Tell me what you think of the situation and if there is a good game plan for tomorrow night. On the other hand, sometimes I just intend to go out with her and practice more and try not to hit on her at all. I have a lot action going on at this point anyway.