when a girl walks up and says... "my friend thinks you're cute" ... then she shows you her friend and 50% of the time shes decent looking. How the hell do you open on that? I've tried saying, "someone told me you think i'm cute" but that never works. help dudes?

nah it doesn't work. that does make for an akward situation. I dunno, run it like a normal open, but maybe not RIGHT then. run the girl that approached you first.

I would never approach a girl simply because her friend said she was interested.

1. The moment you approach her it indicates your interest and sets you up in a DLV from the start
2. Chances are if a girl sends her friend, she is ugly or unattractive and someone I wouldn't be interested in.

Simply tell her friend, "Send her over if she's so interested." If the girl comes, she comes and if she doesn't then oh well.

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+1 Ive had that happen one or two times.

I usually say something like "Well I dont want to leave my friends rite now, but tell her to come on over and join us. I wont bite>"

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actually I have found this scenario to work pretty well in the past for me. For instance I got my first lay from a girl telling my roommate she liked me, then it was a simple matter of being like "so I heard you really like me? I think your pretty cool we should kiss!" But I can see this not working and personally I like women with a little more balls that would tell you that to your face.

i'm going to have to agree. go do something else, and then open her in an entirely unrelated way.
that should also solve any DLV-related problems or awkward situations (no worse than a regular opener, because that's what you're using).

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If that was me id be like;
"Oh yeah? (Cheeky Smile) Tell me 5 good funny things you guys have done quickly, just get the conversation starting, keep the conversation directed at her mate (why shes there) but try and sfoten her hotter mate.
After about 5 minutes id be like would your friend be angry if i asked for your number? If she says yeah (even after the softening up) then bad luck.
But it might work next time.

Dude, easy one. i would tell the girl: "well, tell her to come over here then, so I can see if she's as cute as i am."
girl that likes you: "hi"
you: "well.. hit on me. take your best shot, i promise i won't be too hard on you"

Say all this with a confident smile on you're face =)

whats funny about this, is that you swap roles. all of a sudden, she's the one that has to be hitting on you and she's also the one that has to be approved by you. she's the one with lower value.

i would never go over to her. shows that you're kind of desperate.

sry, My english is rusty.

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i would say going over to her would be a definite no-no; its a DLV, and theres many other ways you could go off with the situation. I always like having her friend come over and start talking to me so its not me going into foreign territory, itll be alot easier to take her from your group of friends. im not too sure if id be like have her come over and ill see if she s as cute as me cuz then her friend will just point her out and then your blown out, i like the idea of running game on her friend cuz then you can go;oh you should grab your friend and come over and hang out with my firends for a bit- then you have 2 girls- and possibly a 3some at the end of the night if your lucky

Goodluck

F|y

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