Ok, somewhere, something is happening, and I'm just not getting results.

I can get her attracted to me, and even snag the phone number. Can yall give me a play by play on what to do?

I.e.

1. Select target
2. Sarge men in group, if any
3. Neg target

etc...

this is the point where I get confused, if I'm getting in the friendzone, or if its gona be more. HELP!!!!

deftonesfan4l1fe,

To be honest there could be a lot of places that you are having trouble with. Not that I'm doubting you but when I started out I had sticking points all over the place, and it took a while to get them down. You may want to re-read Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed or The Venusian Arts Handbook. Both are basically the same thing and outline the M3 model by Mystery which you are referring to.

Quickly it's like this... M3 Model

Attraction

A1 - Open (Select your target, open them, insert a false time constraint)
*Hit the social hook point and transition into Attraction Building.

A2 - Female to Male Attraction (Neg, DHV, Tease, Push/Pull, Build rapport with her group or set, Ignore Target, Look for IOIs etc.)

A3 - Male to Female Attraction (Slowly show interest back to your target)

Comfort

C1 - Initial rapport/Comfort - Intitial 15 minutes of comfort

C2 - Connection - Establishing a connection with your target. True rapport building getting to know each other. Most of your dates are going to take place in C2 area of the phase.

C3 - Intimacy Comfort - moving towards intimate kissing and strong connection and vibe that it's about to be on!

Seduction

S1 -S3 are seduction phases from making out to sex.

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Mystery Method teaches the following.

1. Smile and look like you are having fun (if possible HAVE fun)
2. Don't stay at one location too long.
3. Don't stare at women
4. Start a conversation as soon as possible either with a group of men or women.
In any of the group your target should be present. Often, just to warm up and getting in the talkative mode, start conversations also with men. (Opener = A1)
5. When you start talking to a group, give attention to the whole group. Ideally, give initially more attention to the group than to your target. (A2)
6. Now and than, tease the target. (A2)
7. When target starts to get interested, qualify the target. Tease and screen her a little bit. Use push/pull dynamics. You can find more on this here on the forum. (A2-A3)
8. After the target shows interest, make clear to her that she is interesting but you will not please her at all costs. This means further teasing, screening, push/pull, but also includes bits of 'normal' conversation (A3)
9. Now you are ready to move to the comfort stage (C1). Isolate the target: move her a few feet from her friends or get her outside the bar.
10. Slow down with teasing, challenging and screening a little bit. Include more of the 'normal' conversation: things like 'what do you do for living?', 'do you have sisters/brothers?', 'what is your favorite food?', 'where would you travel if you got the chance?' etc... This takes most time. Phase A1-A3 are done in the first 10-20 minutes after you meet her.

From her on, it goes in a more natural way. Take a look here on the forum or check one of the PUA books, for example Mystery Method.

Make sure that you include kino in phase A2 and phases that follow. Start touching her arm lightly then her shoulder, back, hair, face, waist etc. Do this playfully, for example together when you are teasing her. Use some of the many kino routines (trust test, tension test, palm reading etc).

Read the forum and some of the books. You will find much more info and many examples. Also watch the PUA video's on youtube and see how these things are implemented in real life. Most importantly: do not only read but get out there and practice. If it does not work right away, no problem. It takes some time get the feeling. Over time you will develop intuition and start to get how it works. Ask your questions here, there is always someone who will help.

Good luck!

thats exactly the info i was looking for...helps fill in the missing gaps of my games

thanks a bunch!