Hi Guys,

I was reading information about seduction from SexualKey regarding using bubblewords and sensewords in conversation with women. I wont repeat what I read because it is very lengthy but I think an essential read.The summary is that women interpret language differently and their communication is more emotionally based and repetitive.

I recently received an email for a girl/lady/woman I hadn't for a few weeks and she was asking for more info about myself. I thought I'd try an experiment and send her an email laced with some of the concepts in Sexual key. In written form it's meant to be harder to pull off (i must remember to use that phrase in conversation for innuendo) as it looks like gibberish, nonsense. I used some lines directly cut and paste and some stuff just built on the concepts and I kept it more subtle than examples I've seen.

Here's my email....
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Hi Kay,

thanks for your mail.Okay or should that be Oh! Kay.I checked my profile and it doesn't say much does it.So let's start and make things clear.I'll get the balance right so you have a great understanding of me from the start. I trust this will satisfy your curiousity.

Here's the "shopping list" of interests and then the more fascinating stuff.
Ok. I like music - mainly rock, pop, some classical, films - almost anything,reading - anything that stirs my sometimes overused imagination but currently reading regarding pyschology, hypnotism,esp and NLP and their overlaps,art - anything striking, bold, a dagger to the heart effect,writing - I'm a frustrated writer of short stories and secret poetry. and linguistics. I do a bit of exercise through walking, cycling and not much else. I enjoy board games and word puzzles and wordplay. But despite all that I do not enjoy playing games with peoples emotions, well other than writing which is an emotional game.

So thats the standard stuff....the rest below is then key to understanding and accepting me. That's what everyone wants ultimately.

Serenity is one of the most important things in my life.I realised that my main philosophy in life is through the Serenity Prayer. I'm not religious but this I have accepted. It has opened me up to accepting myself and forces beyond my control. It connects with everything I do so it's incorporated deeply in my life.It gives me balance and a centredness thats hard to describe.The way I look at it, when you feel truly relaxed, truly comfortable, its as if the deepest places inside you
begin to come alive, in a way that makes you feel renewed energised and stimulated, and you feel a freedom that makes it easy to allow yourself to truly open to and surrender to your own deepest passion.

A sense of wonder is also important.My tastes in music, literature, films and art are blurred but all contain that curiousity and recognition to learn and grow.A sense of wonder. I've recognised they all give me great fulfillment. Truly great art takes you out of yourself and the loud gritty harsh fast paced real world and surrenders you to a place of fascination, wonder and excitement.When I listen to rock music I feel the pounding rhythm take over and build from its slow deep origin to a resonating fast climax.When I listen to classical music I'm in a translucent golden bubble of tranquility where everything I desire is possible. With pop music I feel the sweet innocence and excitement.

I like people to be truly open and honest. But it's so rare to find a partner that will have the courage, insight and trust to do so. Surrendering youreslf can be the scariest and most exciting thing you've ever done. Its like diving into a bottomless sea knowing that you cannot swim but trusting that the energy will take you right to the core where there is an intensity of understanding and connection.

My spare time is limited. Like everyone else I have my responsibilities. So freedom is very important. Freedom of thought and space and time. These things cannot be measured. So I respect mine and everyone elses.

Kay, I trust that gives you a greater understanding of me.Let's arrange to meet.

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Here's her reply...


Hey, **********
How are you?
Well...
I love to read and I am currently a Humanities' student so I've always greatly admired people who can write well. Most especially since, I would love to but I can't. Honestly, I am agog. Wow. You can write well. Talk about being pleasantly surprised. I wasn't expecting that. Coincidentally, I am planning on doing my masters in English Linguistics. I am puzzled though. You wrote "frustrated writer", frustrated how? This you can tell me in person?

-kay

P.S.
You live in canton Vaud, right? Where exactly?
Have a great weekend!

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We've arranged to meet tomorrow evening. I think I've framed it so I can get away with more normal conversation as I said in my next email that my old teachers hated the way I wrote and it damaged my confidence. I will also say that I need to be in touch with my Muse and it doesn't happen often and that is why I am frustrated.Maybe try to get in a only-she-can-help-me vibe.Women want to be an inspiration for art, right? I think I'll have to cobble together an "old" poem and let her have it "accidentally". I'm going to practice adding some bubblewords and sensewords to normal conversation and try to keep a straight face

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