Men, especially younger men on this forum, do not date a girl who is not comfortable with their sexuality.
If you are very sexual, like me, find someone who is pretty flirty
But I repeat, do not fall into the trap of the attractive straightedge. Most likely, she will NOT change and then you will have to be that guy who broke up with a girl because she didn't put out. You don't want that reputation.
But do not be fooled, many women are talkers, not doers. You can talk about the dirtiest things with her and she will still never do those things with you.
Regarding women who have been raped in any form (which angers me like nothing else), she may want to wait, sayyy 9 months....yes I have a friend who is STILL sexless with a girl like this. I suggest you find out their limit early on, you really don't want to be the dick who broke up with his girlfriend because she wouldn't put out...after she was violated by another male.
Another point, never pressure a girl. That is not the way to expand the sexually uncomfortable female's boundaries. I learned this the heard way.

So all in all, avoid being a dick by finding out limitations early on. Sexuality is a deal breaker unfortunately. Love rocks, differences in sexual interests sucks.

--Shadow*

This is true, but the direction you took it could not be further from reality. Most women will talk about how they don't sleep with guys on the first date, don't call guys they meet at clubs, want to wait months before having sex, etc. etc. but what they actually do is very, very different.

You came to a false conclusion because you made the mistake of actually believing the stuff chicks tell you. A classic example of the person with the strongest sense of reality getting their way.

Trust me, all women are closet nymphos. They're just waiting on a skilled man to come set them free to express that desire, so the easy solution is to be that guy. And the great part is, all you have to do is believe

Your boy,
870

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870, I'm sure you're correct. I respect you and your posts. But I've had different experiences. What I've experienced is that some women aren't mentally ready for somethings.

I am going to have to agree with this from experience. Unfortunatly I need to be blunt by saying that if she was not sexual with you, you more than likely did not resinate with her on probably a few different levels. I have been with both prude chicks and sexually experienced and with both have been able to get them to have experiences they have never thought was possible and that no one has ever been able to do for them what I did (not trying to toot my own horn but im am trying to show my point).

So I wonder, now that I have unlocked certain things within these girls, can they repeat them with other men? I have actually asked a few different girls that question and each has said no. They all made it very clear that it was in fact me, pressing the right buttons (thats not to say that no one else is able to though)

What I have concluded is that there is a certain level of sexuality in every girl, that anyone can unlock, it is up to you to find the key. I have even known a few girls that were "uptight and prude" and then one day they have a new boyfriend and the girl is a total nympho, I have seen it on 3 different occations and experienced it for myself.


Regarding women who are victums of sexual abuse...Yes some of them arent going to be ready for certian things especially if they have PTSD. But this works the same way you can trigger certain emotions through NLP, she is going to experience emotional responses to the trama, even if she wants to move forward with someone sexually. Its a subcincious human survival mechanism, and it can sometimes get in the way of things like intimacy. These responses alow us to not only learn from our experiences, but react to them so as to avoid making the potentially negative experience twice. It is possible to disconnect your body's emotional responses to specific stimuli, but takes someone who knows what they are doing and the will disconnect it.

Interesting. But what of those who haven't gotten past their own barriers. Like Virgins who supposedly love you but want to wait for marriage.

Virgins are sticky, especially ones that want to wait for marriage. In this case you are fighting against her comfort level and her value system, both of which can be cracked with effort. Its more of a game of making her want it so bad she goes after it versus pressuring her.

With a virgin there will be a very strong emotional attachment afterwards since you were the first, and it was an emotional experience, and she will be afraid she cant have that with anyone else...then she will probably become a nympho with the next guy...

Well I trust you all. I wrote this post in an altered state anyhow, emotions are a tricky thing. My friend had been broken up with by one of the above...anyway, I would delete it but it should be a lesson to those who read it.
Yet there is still a lesson in my post, never pressure a girl, women who have been raped are tricky, virgins and virgins waiting for marriage are things to be avoided if one is lazy.