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PostPosted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 7:46 am 
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Hi Guys,

I went out again with my friends. Though I hang out with them quite often, they bully me a lot and sometimes even in front of others. I thought, I have to go through those to learn a few things as they are good with girls. We were in a pub and not many people were around. So, we started bar hopping. Finally reached a night club. They insisted me to buy them drinks which I did as they said I always get free entry coz I am with them and they know few people from the club. I thought it is ok. So they were opening sets everywhere as usual. Sometimes if I open a set and that set was opened by them before but they crash and burn, they will come back to me and complain if I am able to # close. So I am fucking tired of them honestly. Still I thought, this is a good opportunity to learn game from people who are more successful. As very few chicks were in the club, I decided to talk with a guy who was ordering drink. It was really casual as I was bored sitting. Later me and my friends went to eat and while eating they started teasing me that I am gay for talking to that dude. Suddenly, a girl came to our table and began to say that it does not matter what other people say I should be myself as if I am really gay. I was really fucking pissed off at my friends. I think I should not never go out with these guys again. What you guys say about it?


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Friends who treat you like a lackey aren't friends. Friends that mock you PUBLICLY are not friends. Friend that fuck up your game aren't friends. The only thing you need to learn from these guys is how NOT to be a friend.
Don't bend over and be their bitch. That isn't your job. You don't owe them shit. You think you do because you are letting yourself be controlled.

Decide if it's worth hanging out with them.


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 2:08 pm 
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Friends who treat you like a lackey aren't friends. Friends that mock you PUBLICLY are not friends. Friend that fuck up your game aren't friends. The only thing you need to learn from these guys is how NOT to be a friend.
Don't bend over and be their bitch. That isn't your job. You don't owe them shit. You think you do because you are letting yourself be controlled.

Decide if it's worth hanging out with them.
Thanks for your response. I think, i should stop hanging out with them.


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 7:03 pm 
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Hi Guys,

I went out again with my friends. Though I hang out with them quite often, they bully me a lot and sometimes even in front of others. I thought, I have to go through those to learn a few things as they are good with girls. We were in a pub and not many people were around. So, we started bar hopping. Finally reached a night club. They insisted me to buy them drinks which I did as they said I always get free entry coz I am with them and they know few people from the club. I thought it is ok. So they were opening sets everywhere as usual. Sometimes if I open a set and that set was opened by them before but they crash and burn, they will come back to me and complain if I am able to # close. So I am fucking tired of them honestly. Still I thought, this is a good opportunity to learn game from people who are more successful. As very few chicks were in the club, I decided to talk with a guy who was ordering drink. It was really casual as I was bored sitting. Later me and my friends went to eat and while eating they started teasing me that I am gay for talking to that dude. Suddenly, a girl came to our table and began to say that it does not matter what other people say I should be myself as if I am really gay. I was really fucking pissed off at my friends. I think I should not never go out with these guys again. What you guys say about it?
Guys who dont get it, hate guys who do. You should ABSOLUTELY GO OUT with them, Use them to practise AMOGing. But go out with them every once in a while not every weekend.

I used to hand out with this friend who is exteremly good looking and would DLV me like crazy in a set, he is a typical asshole when it comes to women. After the first 2 hours I started using him to practise AMOGs. It just helped my game.

Every experience infield is a learning experience. Think of this as a great opportunity


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 7:30 am 
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i dissagree one of my friends who i am good friends with everybody including me treats him like crap sometimes cause he acts like an idiont and is all around socialy retarted most of the time the reason i personaly make fun of him is because i want him to deffend himself and start comanding some respect analize the situation figure out why they treat you like crap you could start using words like hey big guy and such to be subtly condesending and comand respect look up how to be an alpha male and charecteristics of alpha male study it and learn how to command more respect or if your big and these guys are openly asshole smack one of them around once or tell them off so they no they cannot push you around THE FIRST STEP IS RESPECTING YOURSELF FIND SOMETHING YOU LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF AND THINK I AM THE GREATEST FOR EXAMPLE AND I dont wanna be cocky here but i have a high IQ so whenver i feel like people are disrespecting me in my head im always just like this dumbass no way then i call em out


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 7:35 am 
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i dissagree one of my friends who i am good friends with everybody including me treats him like crap sometimes cause he acts like an idiont and is all around socialy retarted most of the time the reason i personaly make fun of him is because i want him to deffend himself and start comanding some respect analize the situation figure out why they treat you like crap you could start using words like hey big guy and such to be subtly condesending and comand respect look up how to be an alpha male and charecteristics of alpha male study it and learn how to command more respect or if your big and these guys are openly asshole smack one of them around once or tell them off so they no they cannot push you around THE FIRST STEP IS RESPECTING YOURSELF FIND SOMETHING YOU LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF AND THINK I AM THE GREATEST FOR EXAMPLE AND I dont wanna be cocky here but i have a high IQ so whenver i feel like people are disrespecting me in my head im always just like this dumbass no way then i call em out


GOod LuUCk


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I've been in the situation of hanging out with friends that has a really fixed idea about who I am (the old me).

Its almost impossible to break a behaviour or a position you have in a group you've in a long time.
If you make to much personalprogress becoming very sucessfull with girl, your realation with friends will face a lot of problems.
This is basic human behaviour.
Your value goes up.
Your friends try to lower it, in order to restore the groups balance of Alpha and Beta.

Now, anyone can argue theese arn't real friends etc, but there are infact
very few people out there who can accept someone close to them getting ahead in terms of a good job, hot girlfriend.

If you wanne grow as a person, PUA - you need new surrondings- SPACE.

You need to put yourself in situations where noone has a predjudice on you. Then its all up to you - demonstrate high value, be sociable, confident.
Build up your innergame and show everyone your a cool fucking guy.
Then, respect comes along with it.

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