Okay I am a One-it is and I with this 17 year old HB that is an 8.9 or 9. I been dating her for the past 3 months, she has developed this Alpha Female status. I feel so frustrated that I alway's lose the situation when we argue. This time I want to be the alpha male myself. last night I was about to break up with her because we got into a total arguement of some personal issues, but then we resolved them. she alway's tries to make me jealouse and frustrated either because she say's alot of guy's hit her up and they give them their phone number to her. It seems like she wouldn't have nothing to lose if we broke up or she wouldn't care if she gotten me mad or wouldn't talk me for day's. So how do I up the anti on this one.

discuss please

this is a hard situation to be in, i know from experiance, before i became a pua i had a like this situation , this was about 4 years ago and was the reason i found the community.but it was the same situation,

u have to discredit her and say something like, ok ill get u a golden cellphone as a trophy if she says i get numbers, and try to hook her and lower her selfasteem. also try picking up some numbers from other ppl in the area, whip out your cell text them and start laughing when they reply, if she gets jelious and wants to see say, no way you have your own fish. most likey she will steal your phone and look, so get the #'s. and if u too break up its not like u wernt thinking about it anyway.

ALSO dont ever back down from her, even if your yanking shit out of your ass. your the dominant male, even threatonig to break up with her saying u can do better will up your dhv and lower hers.

one last idea is respect, if your gonna be with a chick she needs to respect u, no girl is worth losing your dignity for. remember that

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yeh dude... that whole situation is your own doing. You give a child candy everytime it throws a tantrum and then i'll quickly learn it has the power. Thats all it is. Don't even mention breaking up. All you have to is something as simple as saying No. And even hang up on her after saying i'll ttyl when you change your attitude to something more pleasent. or anything for that matter.

Ah, oneitis, we all get it man. I'm strongly tempted to tell you to forget her and use your skills on someone new, breaking a friend-frame may be beyond your scope right now.

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He who makes a PUA out of himself accentuates the pleasure.

true, in just two weeks of us dating I had a Full Close with her, and now she's trying to become more mature with me. But after the 14th time of Full Closes, she decided she doesnt want to do that any more.

hey is there anyway you could display link's to that kind of witty personality in this site instead of making another thread of witty comments

dont break up with her, she's with you for a reason. Why don't you just say no to something. She says, "i want to go to Pizza express, coming?"
don't say yes, say no. then change it around n introduce a new idea, say there's a nice new pizza place open, lets go there. Just small things like this will tip the balance.

Or, have an idea like bungee jumping, become the adventurous, spontanious man. fine it might be expensive, but it's a experience youlll remember for the rest of your life. if she says no, say fine n do it with someone else, guy or girl - but make sure not to ask her wat she did!

p.s. Read a book called 'the YES man'. get a review off amazon, it's wikid.

http://www.learnbodylanguage.org/body_l ... nance.html

Read this!

this one? doesn't seem like PUA stuff. but it's all i can find.