We went out to go bowling tonight. She paid for the drinks, I paid for the bowling. Figured it was an even split.

The last time we met, she was constantly on her cell phone and I threatened to leave her or never see her again if she showed that kind of disrespect to me again. Tonight she let the phone ring the whole time we were out. I established dominance. She is used to being in control of every relationship or guy she's with and I was like that before. I completely changed myself around so she'd cater to me.


Her: Hold my drink

Me: *points down at the ground*

Her: *puts her drink down where I pointed*

Her: can you take these shoes back to the counter for me? I gotta go to the restroom

Me: how bout we go together since I gotta use it as well.

She might've been disappointed that I didn't follow her orders but I more than made up for it by being a gentleman. Like, lighting her cigarette, opening the doors for her etc.

There's a big difference between being a gentleman and being a pussy, and I learned a lot of that tonight.

So I'm at her house to drop her off and she says she wants to talk. We start building heavy rapport talking about very personal things. Things we never talked about before. I asked her early on what she likes in men.

She loves what she can't have. *BINGO* Ever since I've told her about how she was a flirt and there was no way she'd get w/ me if she kept flirting with everyone, she was totally digging me. Anyways, after about 20 mins of talking we're looking each other dead in the eyes, holding each other.

This was the kiss close, BUT instead of going in for the easy kiss, I pull her in and tell her

Me: I want to kiss you so bad right now, but you know how I feel about you.

Her: I know! It's like the most perfect kiss moment! I'm so blushing right now. Omg I'm all hot and sticky now. (it was like 85 AT NIGHT and humid, but I think she meant she was really turned on).

Me: Look you know my position and I don't feel right taking advantage of you in this situation.

Her: *DDB* What are you doing tomorrow? We really need to hang out. Omg we so have to hang out tomorrow.

This is where I might have slipped but the fact that she was unbelievably turned on I doubt it mattered.

Me: Well I got work till around 2 so give me a call whenever you get off of school.


So in a nutshell I got a girl that flirts constantly with everyone to change based on what I want.

I reestablished dominance for the most part and she seems to be complying with everything I tell her.

The fact that I know she loves what she can't have and I have shown her that she can't have me, makes me unbelievably appealing to her.

Instead of going for the KC and then probably lose her interest or show that she's got me, I'm making her wait, until I tell her it's the right time.

Now she's hanging on to my every word. I sacrificed a KC for an almost 100% FC

Sounds like it went well. I think you played everything (except maybe the ending) like a pro.

Please post back her and let us know how it ends. (either in this thread, or post the link to another thread in here)

Nice work. I got one I need to re-establish dominance on too. This gives me the inspiration I need.

I want know how this turns out too. I think you should have F-closed when you had her hot. Don't give her time to cool off.

Hope the best for you though.

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"50 below, knee deep in the snow" - Don Magic Juan

well I knew for a fact I wouldn't be able to f-close last night because she lives w/ her parents and I live w/ my sis. The main problem I had with her from my previous post before this was that she would always lead me on but never go past the flirting.

Now that I dictate what happens, it's gonna happen for sure, it's not wondering IF, it's wondering WHEN, which is less stressful.