Hey!

I need advice!! Easier to explain my question if I give you the field report first.

I was at a party last night for nurse students as they had just finished their exams. The setting was perfect and because most of them were nurse students there were literally like 4/5 girls to each guy! There was a lot of talent there and I got talking to a few of the girls and dropped some neggs along the way. SPAM was good, people were laughing and I was getting attention.

After a while another set of girls came in the living room and I caught a stunner in the glimpse of my eye! I completely ignored here for a while and continued talking to the other girls that were there but I noticed she looked over at me a couple of times...

Later I approached her and started negging and being cocky funny which worked perfectly! Every time she would look away or say something to test me like "you're just trying to be a playboy blah blah blah" I would just walk away...soon enough she would come looking after me moments later. Anyway this continued for a while and later on I was sitting down to choose some more music and she came and sat right next to me. From then on I did the jealous girlfriend, cube test and who do you think lies the most routines on her.

By the time I finished the last routine she said to me..."You know what, you're the sort of guy I could see myself getting together with but I have a boyfriend who I live with"....I acted totally cool and she was surprised by this as she said most guys would just walk away after she said that. I acted as if she had never said that and continued with negging etc the whole evening until we went out to the club..By this point she was all over me, but at the same time she has a boyfriend!! She was saying some shit about him through the evening and wanted to exchange numbers with me as we should meet again...Unfortunately i'd forgot my phone at the party and she didn't have hers in the part of the bar where we were...anyways she got my name and added me onto facebook.

Now the advice I need!?

Does she want me to come after her and whats the deal with her boyfriend!???!!!

If I should proceed (I really like this girl), then how should I go about and do it????

Any help much appreciated!!

Funkybunch

What I can suggest is to play it cool. I've been in a situation similar to that. The girl befriended me and I wound up meeting her b/f and gained his trust and he showed what most guys do, they try to be the AMOG and make themselves look stupid and increase your value as it's "no big deal" The girl begins to fall for you and like your personality and ways over her b/fs. Usually the b/f will notice that and the relationship will fall apart. She now has free reign to do as she pleases without feeling guilt.

I do not suggest this unless you are looking for an LTR with this person as it will have ruined her relationship with her b/f, and now she is just being used.

I had a similar experience the other night when we went out for dinner and I met my friends GF for the 1st time, she was flirting with me like crazy. Then she took her shoe off and rubbed up my leg with her foot. I just removed her foot and ignored it.

From experience, I stay away from girls with BFs, it just causes too much trouble. A few of my friends have been punched, kicked and beaten up etc over this sort of thing. Unless she is the perfect 10 or at least a good 9, stay well clear.

There are how many billion women on the planet?! Forget it. It's risky and boring game anyway.

Renaissance,

Thanks for the advice...Think im going to give this one the custard pie!

Hey man, im gonnna quote mystery method ok?

Plausible deniability
Now that, IF she said those words to you.....
Thats a HUGE IOI, and at the same time a test, to see if you came strong all over her with that. But you kept it cool so you passed the test, and now all thats left is The HUGE IOI that represents.

NOW ALSO REMEMBER...

If she mentions her BF.....
Remembering that its ok to use negs, to drive her crazyfor a while, but then you have to phase shift. maybe now reward her with genuine IOIS from your part by being more direct about the things you say to her.

Maybe invite her to hang out one night, and at some point of the night, turn the C&F off and go a bit more rewarding on her IOIs, try to be direct about the way you see her as a woman ( by this i dont mean to get you to compliement her on her looks, or her body, she might already be on notice that shes hot )... instead try to say something about her that relates to the way she makes you feel wheather its emotionally or sexually.

I've found myself playing C&F all night long with a girl that already gave me all the IOIs that I needed to close the deal, but instead i felt that I needed to keep roleplaying or using gambits on her to get her more and more attracted. I was a fool because, had I been a bit more aware of what was happening i would have turned C&F off sooner, got a bit more direct and flirty, and reward her with IOIS from my part, then she would have felt that she was actually winning me over. The close the deal and K-close or whatver....

Thats what Id suggest you to do, now that if you think that shes really into you, and that youve driven her crazy enough with your game. Time to phase shift. 3rd gear and Go more direct about her.

Thats, unless you take Renaissance PUA's advice to stay away from girls with BF ( something that you should also consider, even if you dig this girl very much ) better to stay away from real emotional, and physical danger if you know what I mean. You dont want to end up getting beat up by his 6'2", bald-headed, wheight liffting champion BF who she calls teddy bear.

ok whatver. be thoughtful about this, and I wish you the best of luck !

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