well i have to post this here because i am too "young" to post in general

basically my question is, how do you guys like to keep things interesting if you are in a situation where you can't see someone your dating for a while. basically, what do you guys think about texting and im-ing game?

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i definately used to ask that same question
my brother has had this girlfriend for well over a year now. and there isnt one day where they arent texting nonstop unless they are together in person.
and i kept asking him, "dude, what do you guys talk about? i cant keep a conversation for that long"
and he told me, "i dunno, everything"

and i didnt get it at first but now i do.

u just talk about everything. share stories. keep it interesting. if u did really well in getting her attracted to you, then the next thing is to learn about eachother. build rapport. make eachother laugh. emotions are the next step.

hell, when you share stories you could end up finding out u lived next door to her aunt, or when u were five you guys were in the same daycare. and even something that small can create a huge feel for you to her.

like in my younger years (well like 2 years ago haha) i used to text so many girls at once every day. and still to this day i dont know what i talked about.
u just gotta keep it interesting. dont make it like an interview and keep asking questions about her. it may feel bumpy at first, but it will get flowing and things just come up.

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you asshole! that's exactly how i feel. i don't know what, but i guess it is really easy. thanks for putting into words like that man.
But shit is just... not as hard as we think it is i guess

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hahaha yeah.
i still have problems with texting though man
like i will sit there and just think of something good to say. and she will even text more like 2 more times asking if i was still alive or something just cuz i would take so long. other times im just quick and good.
i dunno. texting is a hard thing now a days. i try not to do it too much. i love being in person with sum1 cuz then better things can happen..lol

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