| 20 quick fire Golden rules for social logistics, pick up and seduction mastery!
1. Speak with dominance and power when you converse with others-Don't say mmm, ummm, you know,,,right?
Speak with coherency, crispness, clarity and at a reasonable vocal phrasing pace-as too slow will seem sluggish and too fast will telegraph nervousness and weakness.
2. Take up space with your arms and legs when you both sit and walk and walk with your pelvis thrusted forward.
Also, if you have a nice belt, put your hand on your belt, a bit off from the belt buckle with your thumb inserted just behind it, so it looks like you are almost grabbing your missle launcher. This conveys that you are very dominant and sexual.
3. Make eye contact with everyone that passes you by and give them a sly smile, Also, make sure that you don't break eye contact with anyone, not even a 7 ft Tall Wrestler. Let them break eye contact with you first. Remember, it does't matter how big the other person is. What matters is who has the more powerful belief system and attitude. For instance, I am 5'8 and will make solid, unshakeable eye contact with guys that are 3 times my size and strength and ironically these men are the first to look away or acknowledge me with a smile and greet me. WHy? because that sort of confidence earns respect. The purpose of this is to really shape your social muscle and to learn to be dominant.
4. When a beautiful woman is standing in front of you- make the habit of looking at every point above her, under her, to the right, to the left of her, but never at her for the first few seconds when she enters your field of view.
This drives them wild because it puts a hole in their societal status that is undeservingly fed to them each day.
Then when you open them, they are much more likely to talk to you because they value you now, and want to be validated by a high-value male who has the power to strip them of their self-esteem. In fact that subtle action further implies that you have higher value.
5. When you approach a woman or a group of women in the mall, approach them from the side and if they happen to start walking past you, DO NOT follow them. Stay put. You can then get them to come to you by saying. "I m sorry I can't hear you honey, you're going to have to speak louder or come here and talk to me properly"
6. When somone is talking to you and you can't hear what they are saying, DO NOT lean in to them to hear what they have to say again. Let them lean into you. I take my index finger and then flicker it making a "come here for a sec" motion and say:
"Can't hear you big guy--come hear and speak to me properly".
7. I will sometimes walk with my hands behind my back and open and interact with people that way. You will see a lot of rich, classy, elegant, debonaire, alpha men do this. It also forces you to rely strictly on your vocal projection, tonality to be more dominant and animated.
8. When you are in a club and you need to quickly gather social proof, just wave at imaginary people frequently. It will seem as if you know and are adored by many people.
9. If you go out by yourself and don't have a wingman or a woman to act as a pivot--the quickest way to get social proof is to use a cell phone and act as if you are talking to a hot model you picked up last night at the club. You can say---"Hey babe....I am glad you had an awesome time last night....your girlfriends are very cool as well. I can't wait for all of us to get back in that pool again". "How is the weather in Hawaii?"...a few minutes later....you can say "Anyways I am getting a phone call, gotta go but will call you later okay?....".
Make sure you say this loud enough so that other women can hear it that you are interested in. This will subtely insinuate that you are 1) Well travelled 2) Have female contacts all over the world 3) Are comfortable with other women as much as being open to getting dirty and wet with a group of them 4) Are confident 5) Are not sexually needy as you let your girl go first from the telephone conversation.
10. When you speak to other men in the presence of beautiful women use phrases like
Hey big guy
Thank you sir
Good man! Good man!
My man!
Let me give you an example.
1) Hey big guy, is that an Affliction T-shirt?....I like it....wear it for me next time I see you okay.
2) Do you know what time it is dude? I have to call someone very special----Thank you sir!
3) What do you do for a living man? A doctor...Good man .... Good man!
4) My man! has the same sort of connotation as the popular coined phrase in "Training Day" used by Denzel Washington
when speaking to his trainee Ethan Hawke which was- "My nigga".
Notice how these sort of under handed comments are usually made by those in a position of higher social status to those of lower. You will find a big brother, a boss, a leader talking like this to his sub-ordinates. They are not insulting nor disrespecful, but very "subtly and in the right amount" social value killing comments. When made in the present of other women, it will convey that you are the tribal King!
11. If you can't own a massive group, you are far from mastering social dynamics, pick up and seduction. When I go out to Yorkdale to run Day game, typically there are 15-20 people outside. I will actually yell out and talk to everyone of them or I will ask one in a very loud , dominant voice "Hey dude, is everyone in this city so shy and socially unconditioned to speak with others?...people here have a closer relationship with their cell phone and cigarette than they do with others---It's very different here than in NYC, Chicago, London where people talk to each other"
Now you wouldn't believe how many people after open up to me and want to talk to me or are completely opened up if I try to initiate a conversation with them. I mean hey who wants to be labelled "Socially retarded by the Mc Maestro?".
The bottom line here is 1) You are displaying super-human leadership, dominance, ownership and confidence in your interactions with others. 2) You are challenging others- especially the women in the audience if any to prove to you that they are not hermits or socially ackward idiots.
12. Women love the mystical arts like palm reading, astrology, tarrot card reading, etc Carrying on this point I like to employ hand-structure analysis to get a woman hooked into wanting to talk to me and even to the point of chasing me. It is based on the premise that everyone has 1 of 5 types of hand structures which allow us to read their demeanors and personalities. The names of the structures are named after the elements of the earth-water, fire, air, earth and mixed. All you have to do is during an interaction with a woman spit out "Oh shit...you have a water hand..." and then go back to the previous conversation thread. In my experience 9/10 if not 10/10 women want to desparately know what that means and will stay until you tell them. Try it for yourself!
The reason we need to get a woman to chase us is so that she feels she is conforming to the societal rule that although men court/chase for sex, women ultimately decide if and when sex should occur. In other words she needs to feel that she pursued us for it rather than manipulated into it by us in order her to open up to the idea of sleeping with us. Consequently we need to get her to invest in the interaction more, during the mid-game phase. The other obvious reason is that no woman will ever feel "sexual attraction" for you until she feels as though she invested in the interaction with you.
13. You must always lead the interaction with everyone. For instance when I approach a woman in a mall, usually I stop her dead in her tracks in the middle of the mall with people passing us by. I will then say..."come here let's talk without being a bunch of bohemians and blocking others." IOW- I make the isolation with me something that is the result of my consideration of others and also with dominance which women find sexually attractive. I will then mini isolate her to the window of a store where I get her to lean against it with me and continue gaming her. I will then do a second isolation to a different location like a Starbucks where we can sit down and build comfort.
14. The only way to stop incredibly hot, high quality, bitchy looking, low-attention span women in a rush on the streets or in the malls is to use an opinion opener. Anything else, even a tease will be considered as a sign of flirtation. Remember, why would you go out of your way and poke fun or tease someone if you are not interested in them. You need to be neutral at the initial point of entry and then bomb them with bitch shield disengaging material and self-value demonstrating material.
15. Act like a traffic light with no orange. Only green and red-and switch abruptly into stop mode. For instance, when you stop a very hot woman and ask her for her opinion, the minute she gives you an answer, just stop, act irritated with her answer and subtly turned off, start planting your feet away. DO NOT SAY A WORD. 10/10 will start to wonder why you are not talking to them and will chase you for dialogue. The purpose of this once again is to switch the screen/chase switch from you chasing them to them chasing you which is a requirement in order for a woman to feel sexual attraction for you and be open to sleeping with you.
16. Stop thinking that trying to build rapport with guys is exhibitng dominance over them. Too many times I see guys walk up and compliment, act impressed and try to befriend other guys because they were told that you need to be cool with other males and show leadership over them. That is not leadership but rather sinking your battleship. Time and time I see the males who are being approached just brush off and act like assholes towards the PUA, essentially owning him.
Instead be dominant, be cool, be their leader but never attempt to seek rapport. For instance, I saw a guy on Saturday outside of a mall smoking. I said to him. "Hey man....you want to do the honours?" refering to him lighting my smoke. In fact that is one of my sound bytes for women that I approach outside. It is somewhat cocky and ballsy but works like a charm. Anyways the guy was wearing a t-shirt with the letter "M" on it. So I said:
"What does the M stand for?"
Him: I don't know
Me: "It stands for Magnificent...you got that? So if anyone ever asks you what the M means you tell 'em that....got it?"
Him. Yeah man thanks!
Do you see how I was cool -yet maintained my leadership over him at all times? This sort of leadership and dominance is very attractive in the eyes of women of beauty and quality! Remember, subtlety is the name of the game!
17. At a club or bar-Walk up to two women who are leaning against the bar and gently grab them by the waist, and displace them from their position . You now go in there and lean against the bar, taking their position and have them in front of you so you look like you are the nucleus of that interaction and then put your arm over their shoulders and say "Ahh much better...I needed to rest my arm somewhere". This conveys confidence as you were cocky but playful and also allows you the very quick opportunity to establish touch which is critical and close the space with them.
18. Wear a big ass cowboy hat----There is something about a nice, big cowboy hat with a bit of art work or silver embroidery. It turns heads like nothing else. Remember we need to give a woman whiplash by causing her head to turn by our style, just the same way she causes our heads to turn if we are to attract such a "high status beauty".
19. Wear an eye popping, big ass, metal belt buckle -This will cause every woman to automatically look down there
You can then say..."We just met and already your focusing on my crotch.....shame on you missy".
The point here is that you can introduce sexual-undertones right off the bat and use them to make your interaction
sexually charged with a woman
20. Never get suckered into taking a picture of a group of partying women at a club or lounge. I see too many men say "Sure...I'll do it". You will be perceived as a lackey and your social value will drop 30,000ft in altitude. Intead if a woman or group of women ask you to take their picture...you can respond with "I don't do pictures" or "What are you going to do for me once I take your picture for you?".
This will challenge them!. If they say nothing, then you can say "Well then you can ask the countless men in here who will jump for joy and take your picture for you, have a nice evening!" Ironically, now they will want to talk to you even more.
McMaax
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