So, there is this girl that I used to work with and we had been email each other over facebook. I ran some online game on her and such. Well, yesterday I mentioned to her where I was going to be tonight, didn't invite her, she didn't invte herself. But, guess who was there. So we start talking and I do some push pull and some cocky funny on her, and before you know it, we are out on the patio isolated.

We talk, make out a little, talk some more. She ends up at my place (to see my new kick ass laptop, as she's looking to buy a new one). As the ladies say, one thing led to another. We are on my bed, both have shirts off, and are making out. I feel her hand moving up my thigh and I block my dick off with my hand and say "I'm not there with you yet". She looked confused. She said "what?". I said "I need to know that you'll put consideration in to this going past tonight". She kind of laughs and says "has that been a problem for you? girls just taking off". I said, "no, but I'm careful, and I like to feel the situation out". Then I started kissing her again.

No LMR from her on any of my advances. After about an hour of foreplay, I ask, "so, after tonight", her reply was "yeah, as long as were good together". completely killed any LMR she might have had by throwing it up first. I don't know if this is a PUA tactic or not, but I really do want to know that, so I went with it.

And now she is sleeping soundly in my bed. gotta go for a morning lay now.

Good post. You pre-empted her.

I'll play devil's advocate for a moment though. While I think the idea is generally sound, in this case there may have been no actual LMR in the first place - usually if the girl goes for your junk, it's on.

But, there are cases where that does happen before LMR, like it did for me last night, and it can be frustrating as hell. Blue balls = not good.

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neat!!! get it on bro, morning lays are pretty cool..

Nice. That was a good c&f and push and pull. I have done that a few times for ONS. Try this, "You know I dont do this normally. I'm not like this but you just ....seduced me. I hate you. I hope your not going to tell all your friends about this !!" ALL in a very FUNNY way.

Or sometimes " lets exchange numbers before we do this. I dont want to only be your love toy". This is very funny and often you'd have her bursting into a laughter.

Marc i like what you said ; Legion - good point if she reaches for you're cock u prolly got it

Strimpboi - Good post , this is great, good reverse psychology and guarantee that its not going to be just a one night thing , and the possibility of her being a flake greatly reduced

Ima add that to the arsenal ( Wats funny is you can grab her hand put it on ure cock and say oh yea that feels good you want that , you cant have it just yet i dnt want to feel used and say i need to make sure this isnt just a one night thing i enjoy ure company ure a great person to be around

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