Do you beleive in energy ?
what is energy ?
and what does energy have to do when it comes to scoring with women?

first of all lets define energy. –noun, plural -gies.

1. the capacity for vigorous activity; available power: I eat chocolate to get quick energy.

2. an adequate or abundant amount of such power: I seem to have no energy these days.

3. Often, energies. a feeling of tension caused or seeming to be caused by an excess of such power: to work off one's energies at tennis.

4. an exertion of such power: She plays tennis with great energy.

5. the habit of vigorous activity; vigor as a characteristic: Foreigners both admire and laugh at American energy.

6. the ability to act, lead others, effect, etc., forcefully.

7. forcefulness of expression: a writing style abounding with energy.

8. Physics. the capacity to do work; the property of a system that diminishes when the system does work on any other system, by an amount equal to the work so done; potential energy. Symbol: E

9. any source of usable power, as fossil fuel, electricity, or solar radiation.


according to point number 9 energy is a source of usable power that creates a potential for a person to use power. Now when it comes to energy there is two types of energy that a person can consume which in product result in his aura effect. Thats positive and negative

what is an aura this is the definition of an aura
pl. au·ras or au·rae (ôr'ē)
An invisible breath, emanation, or radiation.
A distinctive but intangible quality that seems to surround a person or thing; SPAM: An aura of defeat pervaded the candidate's headquarters.
Pathology A sensation, as of a cold breeze or a bright light, that precedes the onset of certain disorders, such as an epileptic seizure or an attack of migraine.
Thus as I said earlier unused power results in something we all know as energy. For one to be having a positive powerfull aura one must retian a positive energy for one to retain negative aura one most have potential of negative energy.

Power we are discussing here is the power of will and the power of reaffirmations as we all know in the science of NLP (Im not a pro in psychology but I can relate to some topics under that subject)

The power of will is the power for one to establish his own positive thoughts and beleifs and hold on to them so that they becomes his definition of reality in other terms , it is the innerframe that one holds within himself that establishes the power within.

This stems from two main sources:

1-Internal or self generated

2-External or enviroment generated


(to continue part 2)

Part II:

Positive energy can be produced in two forms:

1-internal

This is the reality that you are an exception to this vast world and vast universe , nobody has the same characteristics you do your likes your dislikes your very exact reaction to things and your very exact state of being. In order to develop a strong reality of yourself you must first define who you are what are your principles and what is the best image if yourself.

After this is done comes the hardwork , i.e. working on yourself to acheive the things YOU want and not what others expect from you or what others see you.

This will inculde definin what is positive and negative to your being in everything including social relationships , food , health ,and even small things like music taste and video games even.

Once you have defined what is positive for yourself you must work on establishin these positive factors for yourself. For example. I started going to the gym because the image I have for myself is a mascular image and a strong stamina. Once I acheive this I have completed a positive factor for myself.

When it comes to social relationships , define what is acceptable for you (positive) and what is not (negative) once that is defined you must promise yourself to keep heading to where the positivity pole is strong. For example, calling a girl on a date will give me the oppurtunity to have a good time and enjoy her company plus give her some of my experiences and fun (positive) if the date happens and this connection has been established I have built a positive factor not for myself but for others.

If I meet a girl who is not down with it I see it as a negative pole and I stay away from it with logical reason as well.

Another practical example is when your meeting new people establish a fun positive vibe which two of you can exchange and share (positive) if they dont seem to vibe with it accept that their positivity is not as high as yours and may even suck your positive energy. Worse is when they have bulk negative energy (i.e. not fun not vibing) then its best to through some postive seeds upon them and leave.

the basis for positive internal framing is knowing that there is nothing we really gain in life except what we really think of ourselves , life is our own perception of reality. If your perception is strong solid and positive then thats what you will get in return. Women , cars , looks , social status dont really define who you are its you who define who you are. In order to do that here are a little tips Id suggest:

1- Accept that positivity is abundant in all scenrios and there is nothing bad in any situation , if its getting rejected by a girl , or losing a loved one everything happens for a reason and the person who defines this reason is yourself.

2- When in public venues offer positive energy to the place , ever wonder why do Performers and DJs are so loved by the crowd its because of the positive energy they emit to the people around them. So smile and amuse yourself at everything you look at even if its silly. walk tall and put your head up because you are the source as others of this positive energy.

3- Take other forms of energy and turn it into a positive one , if its sexual frustration , fury or any other form of feeling turn it into a positive energy by acceptin it and movin forward. I had trouble dealing with my sexual frustration for a while but then I realised that its good to want it but not to need it as with anything else.

4- When your approachin women. Dont expect anything but a beautifull positive energy that will bring smiles on both of you together. Self amuse , honesty and most importantly authenticity if the key. If you get rejected its fine you did take the approach in the first place plus just accept that they maye have negative energy flowin in within themselves , which is not out business to change. The only person you should be focusin at is yourself.

(Continue Part 3)

I've noticed that many of the best gurus all allude to some kind of aura that men give off that attracts women. They call it a vibe or say a woman can sense or feel something about a man. Dr. Paul even believes in what he calls "sending" which is basically attracting women with the power of the mind.

I believe we as humans do somehow communicate on a almost a telepathic level. Now obviously this isn't like mind reading or anything like that. But we've all had a feeling like someone is watching us, even if we can't hear or see them, we sense them. The idea is that our brains give off electrical impulses which sends out specific frequencies. And other people can sense those frequencies. They've even done test that show that women have some form of this psychic connection with their infants, where they can tell when their babies are crying, even if they can't see or hear them.

Have you even been talking to a girl and their is a lull in the conversation, and the sexual energy in the room spikes and you know you can both feel it. Like out of nowhere the sexual tension is so thick you can feel it like static electricity or something.

Or have your eyes even been suddenly drawn toward an ordinary looking girl at a party, and you were instantly attracted to her and you didn't know why. Like there was something drawing you toward her.

So basically, yes I think we give off a detectable vibe/aura/energy, but I believe it to be scientific in nature, probably some vestigial ability that we used before our ancestors had the ability of speech.