So I just read the game a few months ago and have done a lot of research since then and I am in a very weird position most guys could only dream of. I am a very attractive guy and more often than not, women approach me. If they dont, I will start talking immediately to the hottest girl in the bar and since I live downtown, i just point to where I live and they come back to go to the indoor pool which ultimately leads to the bedroom. I only go out on Fri/Sat but for every weekend for the past 2 month, there has only been one night I havn't brought home a girl and hooked up with her.

Basically, I live in a college town and so right now during the summer there are not a lot of ladies out and I keep running into girls I have already hooked up with and they always try to ruin my game it seems like. Since I hooked up with them before, they think they can come up to me and try to hook up again. Well, I am trying to have a good time and meet different women and it pisses me off.

My Question: What the hell are you supposed to do when you see women at a bar that have already hooked up with you? I feel like an asshole if i ignore them and pretend they never existed but if I talk to them, they spend a good 20 minutes of my time convincing me that we should leave together. 20 minutes I could be gaming another girl. I F-close nearly every girl I talk to because they are all very attractive. This one girl was following me around the bar last weekend and I had to get the bouncer to tell her to leave me alone. Another night, I was gaming this one particular girl and I had 3 girls come up to me during the conversation and try to ruin my game. I usually just turn my back to them and blow them off.

Like I said, this is a very awkard and rare situation that most are not familiar with. But I promise, its almost worse than having no girl. Kinda odd, huh? I get girls texting me every weekend telling me to go to whichever bar they are at and I use that to go to a different bar to avoid seeing previous girls.

WHAT DO I DO? any advice is greatly appreciated... oh...and the most common pick-up line that the ladies use on me? Hey...you look like Jude Law. They buy me drinks, and I spit just a little bit of game and they end up in my bed. HELP! And please dont say that I should turn them into girls I could use as social proof because I automatically have it as soon as I walk into a place. Girls tell me I have this vibe, and i think its just because I am in a constant state--RSD is the shit.

That's a pretty cool situation you're in man. A lot of people, including me would love to be in that situation.
Anyway, to your question, i may not be as experienced but i think i am able to see it from a different perspective. You said that girls are chasing you and trying to ruin your game. I sense a lot of jealousy going in. This might mean that you are giving girls the wrong impression. Hypnotica talks about setting the frame and bringing her into your reality. You need to communicate to girls that you are the type of guy who is not going to commit to a long term relationship, without being seen as a player. You may be closing the deal too fast, considering you said you're pretty good looking and have a great place. You may have to keep your dick in your pants a little longer and clearly tell them that you are not going to be their boyfriend, even if that means losing them, rather than giving them a wrong impression.

I hope that helps and if i'm wrong i'm sorry but i had little to go on.

I think most guys would read your post and thinkg, "Get the fuck off this forum". I mean we're all struggling to get girls and then we got you, who has made all of a grand 1 post on this forum with a "problem" that all of us wish we could have. It's really hard to have sympathy for a guy like you.

But, not to be a hater I would say that Willinglearner is spot on. If you really have such a problem you need to let the girls know after you f close them that they are just a sex friend. You don't have to say, "Okay. You are a sex friend." No. You insinuate it through various things that you tell her or talk to her about. You could even thorw in a pre-emptive strike and say something like, "Hey, you know, you may see me at (such and such) bar one of these days. It sucks, but a lot of girls tell me I look like Jude Law so I get a lot of un-needed attention. So, if you see me talking to a girl don't sweat it, okay? If I don't get to say hello to you in the bar send me a text later that night just to touch base with me. You seem like the kind of girl that would be cool in a situation like that so I just wanted to let you know".

You see. You are basically telling her what you expect of her in the pre-emptive strike. People have a natural tendency to act in the way that they are expected by others to act. See how that works for you.

By the way, can't you switch up your game and go to different bars where the girls you always f close are not hanging around?

User more IODs. I have no problem getting to girls, but you might want to be harder to get. Leave them wanting more and don't give in and you will more than likely push them away. They will get the hint. Or explain that you can't commit to anyone, you can make yourself out to be a player.

menage management 101...A lot of guys don't relieze how hard this area is once your seeing between 3 -7 women. Not having a good structure can bring about turmoil in ones life.

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Tell them they are cute and you will find them later but for the time being you are just grabbing a beer with your buddies

Interesting post.
yes this is a situation where you seem to have taken on completely that you are the prize which can only increase your succcess.

I work at a school, and there is this new kid who is really good looking or so the girls all say, and anyway, the other day I caught the girls passing around a piece of paper during my class. On it were the names of the boys in the class and next to each name was a number rating of the boy in question. Pretty much like we here on the forum write HB8 well, needless to say, the new kid got a 10 from most of the girls. He has the girls hanging around the football pitch just watching him and other girls try to take part just to be around him. The other day, I caught one girl outside the toilets and so I ask what she is doing hanging around the boys toilets / and she said she was waiting for the new kid. It is pretty unbelievable.
The girls in that class are acting like most boys would normally be acting towards the hotties. For the most part, he treats the girls like irritating flies buzzing around him. It must feel nice.

funny turn of the tables. Shows you how being the prize is so important.

hey i just had to add that in now way was I trying to put anybody down and attempt to act better than you guys. I spent the last 4 years of my life with a girl from college and we recently broke up a few months back. I began reading about the pickup game when I was 16 and am 22 now. I used the game before Neil Strauss and that is how I landed my LTR. However, after that, I lost all of my confidence and all of my game. I felt worthless and had lost all of my friends and felt that I could only meet a girl on the internet.

So I took a proactive appraoch and moved downtown where I can literally point to my balcony from many of the bars. My confidence has risen to new levels and it is an unbelievable feeling. Nobody in my entire life has said I looked like Jude Law (and honestly I dont think I do) but its like as soon as I got confidence back and started acting and carrying myself differently, It is almost a given that I will be called Jude Law when I go out. My looks are not different, only my confidence. I am a skinny, 160lb, 6'4" guy and in high school people called me "stick."

Basically this is how it started. One night, I hung out with my roomates girlfriend's friends who surprisingly were all overweight...and not just a little thick. They all started calling me Jude Law one night and when we went out I was getting attention from everybody because I just had this new glow to myself. If you guys can take anything from this, I would suggest that the reason people say this now is because I have manifested myself into a new character. I love life more than ever and am extremely positive and try to be the center of attention in every situation. My personality has changed from one extreme to the next and I will never go back to the depressed guy, crying over my ex while everyone went to the bars. Be proactive, get out there...since I have changed so much, I have shown the game to several of my friends and we all share similar success stories. Confidence is contageous so if your friends are not, then work together to accomplish a similar goal--complete mastery of women because that is where confidence really comes from. When I walk into a bar, I honestly feel that I can land any girl in there. I have never felt like that before in my life. Me and my buddies have an exercise before we go out...we scream from the balcony 14 floors up and wait until people start screaming back. It puts us into state and gives us a boost before we hit the streets. It is unbelieveable and there is no reason at all that you guys cant also have too many girls to handle. So hopefully now that you know my background, you will understand I started out just like everyone else, an AFC...and still today, I am a recovering AFC. Not perfect, never will be--but it is a goal worth attempting because any short fall is still pretty damn good.

Best of Luck Gentlemen.

LOL are you for real?

1. If you were this good & good lucking why would you become a PUA?!

2. My friend is a model and bloody good looking, when we go out girls give attention by the bucket load but if he doesn't have the game to back it up they flake.

3. Women are not like men, they don't just go for looks, they go for what they can get status wise, so why would all these stunning women throw themselves at you? Do you role up in a Phantom or a Farrari or something, I'm missing something here surely?

LOL, this just seems like your bragging to me.....

Well I am in medical school but I never throw that out there until late in the conversation to kinda tip them over the edge. And I'm not bragging, I live in a small town with limited amount of bars and you are bound to run into these girl again when your out. If it's awkward the next morning, it's most definitely awkward when you see them out. And if you see several of them out again and each thinks you had something special, it's a total state buster.

I am confused just like RenaissancePUA. I don't know in which country you live but in my country girls would never throw themselve on a guy in the way you describe it. Maybe at high school when they are teenagers but once they pass the age of 20 girls know which power they have and they do no tend to be as easy as you describe, not even if the guy is the most handsome they ever saw. They would try to send out some signals but they would almost never approach. So I also feel that there is something fishy about your story.

On the other hand, if for some strange reason this problem is real (which I can almost not believe) than try to be honest to the girls and tell them that you just want to f****, not having a relationship. But still I think your story is fishy. Girls would be so angry with you because you are using them that you would never be able to date any girl again, especially not in the little town you live in. I used to have a friend who at some point in his life dated a new girl every week . After a few weeks his reign was over. All girls knew about him. He was considered as the biggest bastard in the city and all girls started to run away from him. He had to find his ladies in a different city. And I guess in a little town your reign would have been over even faster.

Several years back when I joined college there was this popular, very good looking, 6'2 inch tall, football player. Like there always is in very college. Every girl wanted him and he hooked up with quite a few of them.

Then there was me the new kid, who since an early age walked around with 'I dont give a damn, My cock is precious and you dont get it unless you can prove your worth ....lol...!!' didnt play football but listened to my music and had different interests in life.

When I joined college in the 2nd week he tried what now seems like amoging me and I gave it back to him. He tried a few more tricks for the next 3 weeks and basically ended up embarrasing himself everytime. Women could sense that he was fighting a loosing battle. Anyways, I ended up dating his older sister who was 2 yrs senior to us. Dated other girls in the class, dated his then girlfriend (They broke off, I felt bad for him though)

Anyways, we acted mature and by the time we graduated he and I ended up beiing good friends. We still keep in touch and he now is an attorney in Austin,TX and have no problems with women but he still remembers me as the guy who took "it away" from him.

Moral of the Story, when you get attention from women dont make them feel like disposable paper plates. A PUA or any guy who is good with women actually truely likes women, and enjoys their company. Go figure!

Also, always watchout for that Marc in your life, you never know when he steps into your world and takes it all away from you.

I think to summarise......

The moral of the story is and here is a lesson to take away:

A good & sucessful PUA goes out to make other ppl feel good, he puts them 1st.

A bad & unsucessful PUA goes out to make himself feel good and puts other people 2nd, going after as many girls as possible and just throwing away all the other girls like they are disposable items and not treating them as real beautiful people. If you live your life like this, you will end up very lonely my friend.

Enjoy,