hey there guys. lately my game's been kinda off. i've been able to open, build comfort, and add in a little kino. but lately i can't be flirty, or build sexual tension. lately i've only been able to establish a friend connection, except for one girl, but i'm not interested in her. what are some ways you guys like to make the convo a little more sexual/build tension?

once you have comfort with her
shake it up a little

say something that wont completely destroy the comfort but kinda break it a little

like "wow that's sexy when....blah blah" or " its so cute when you smile like that"

let her know your interested in her on that level
and start pressing the envelope more and more
don't be afraid


a girl will almost ALWAYS forgive you for being a little too aggressive
but is least likely/will never forgive you or feel anything for you if you act like a pussy
and don't take it where you know you want to go and she wants to go

hope this helped

-hatch

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"Amateurs do it until they get it right, professionals keeping doing it until they cant get it wrong"

thanks bro, that does help. i'll definitely give that a try.

In my experience the easiest way to add sexuality to a conversation is with innuendo and double-entendre. It's hard to explain how to do it since it is very situation-specific. A conversation doesn't have to be explicitly sexual to be sexual. it's actually just a lot more fun to hint at things and then have the conversation drift in that direction as opposed to just saying "hey lets talk about sex or something sexual"

If innuendo isn't your style then just go direct with questions:
"If you could change anything about your body, what would it be?" - Most of the time it's something sexual like breast/butt size, either way it gets you talking about her body.
"What do you think of breast implants? My friend is considering getting a pair and I was saying..."
"Have you ever watched porn born before?" - Either way she answers, you grill her for being a nympho or a goody two shoes for watching or not watching porn.

~Antithesis

I love physically using double-entendre.

This is one of my favorite things to do Say "Look - I understand."
When you say "look," fix your balls. Really hold them, show you don't care. She will look, I guarantee it. Wait about 3 seconds to say "I understand," or whatever you want to say. For a split second, she will feel as though you just told her to look at your crotch - and better yet she knows that she complied. After you end the statement she'll realize you didn't say that at all and that it was just her being a perve.

guys, i just went through a transformation of the mystery method to a more direct approach...IT WORKS. For example: i play the 5 questions game (look it up), and of course i win... teh bet was a kiss... but when she leans in to kiss my cheek... i turn my head so she kisses my lips.... trust me this works and girls love it.... another thing i like to say (if i know her a bit or for day 2): "wow you look great, u know what lets just skip the forplay...and have sex".... if you talk that sexuall, she will thinck ull have a hughe confidence and ur definately not an afc....
good gamin
coolkid

What age are the girls where you say innuendo works well? As for me with ~18 year old girls I must admit that it's not working well. When I'm with friends it always works wonders, makes the discussion interesting and funny, especially girls get all fired up about it. But when approaching most of the time I get that rolling eyes kind of look that says "are you always thinking of that?" Maybe I am making the statements too obvious? Or are there differences in age?