There's a girl i've been gaming for quite some time... at first things were good, she lives kind of far away but we see each other at a night club we each frequent. she eventually started getting more and more kinky and touchy on the dance floor as nights progressed. she started sending me texts "you know... i haven't gotten laid in a while blah blah blah" then following up with "i'd love to spend some time alone with you"

she also explained that she HATES talking on the phone, but that i was special because she enjoys calling me.

starts sending me kinky pics of her in her panties (no nudes though)

we spend time alone twice, both times i thought i had it in the bag, lots of kino, making out, cuddling, but when it finally came down to bed time, she pulled MAJOR LMR.

still continues to send me kinky pics (still no nudes), asks me to pick out her outfits for her to wear to the club

but still, she won't commit to any plans

i tried freezing her out this past weekend, and i just talked to her... she doesn't seem interested at ALL now... i think it kind of backfired, or maybe freezing out wasn't the appropriate thing to do for the situation

i'm just going to call it quits, but is there anything i can do to leave myself open just in case she decides to hit me up in the future?

also, how do you respond to things like "i haven't gotten laid in a while" or other very openly sexual comments from girls...? i seriously draw a blank when this happens.

thanks
-HiLo

Maybe you should send her a pic of yourself

Don't text her for like 4 days, and then send a really good pic of yourself that you know will catch her attention (no nude bro lol) and then just leave it at that.

You gotta make her want you.



As for the texts, you should switch the subject to you like say "Your a loser then. I'd like to spend more 'alone' time with you but idk, you don't seem like you want just a good time and not a really good time judging by our past 'alone' times."


And see what she says.

If she says something like "whatever" just say "Alright then, bye =)"

Then stop txting her unless it seems like she wants to keep texting you.

She's going to feel the need to prove herself to you.

But idk if it will work now since you and her have had past experiences where you had the chance to get her laid but didn't know how to do it and missed the opportunity.

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