In my eyes "dealing" is having a girl on the side which you "deal" with whenever you want but at the same time do what ever you want with other girls i.e meet someone at a bar and make out with her but knowing that you have this girl with which you are seeing but are not official so its ok to do that.

Now with this girl, she is all for me and i for her yet when i asked her what our current situation is together, believing that she wanted a relationship from the way we get along and by her friends in the car saying "we are such a cute couple" yada yada she replies "dealing i guess" :S

So i told her what i thought dealing meant (what i mentioned above) to me and she said no dealing means the time before you actually go out.....please tell tell me if that makes any sense.

So as we speak i dont know whether to say i have a girlfriend or just some girl :S

Any pointers, ideas about this "dealing" theory of hers and what i should do so i can officially call her my "girlfriend"??

You should be too busy having fun together to worry about what label to put on your relationship. If you're to become exclusive, it will happen naturally. Quit worrying and go live life.

Your boy,
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