Ok, just gettin home my 1st night out under my new pick up frame.
This will be long so u dont have to read all, just skim and try to give creative feedback

Let me start w/ that I have devoted the past 6months of my life to learning the game. Learning from every guru & mpua I could find, download, or go buy. & I know it all inside and out! (or so i do when im sittin at home comfortably)
Ive been doin the online sargin thing religiously from 2-3 months, got 10-15 phone numbers and 4 dates out of it. Each ending after only the one date. No sex for a year now.
So onto the sarge....

It started w/ me(26) & my buddy(21) who although hasnt done 5% of the research ive done, he's into it and listens to all i tell him bout what ive learned.
We take down 4 shots of jagr apeice and set out walkin to the bar/club 4 blocks from my house.

As we're walkin i tell him, as soon as we walk in the door lets open the 1st set we see. So as soon as i open the door he spots a cute 3 set right inside the door sitting. I walk up instantly to them and open as cocky/funny as i can & say "This place is dead wheres the party at?" Now this was a packed trendy bar on sat night a 10pm. They knida laugh and one really opens well and say "the parties here!" and points to her group. Now this set me up for a night APSOLUTLY ZERO APROACH ANXIETY! Not to get to farahead in the story, but i opend probably 15 sets of non mixed sets, w/ 2,3, & 4 girls. Never hesitated once(thats about the only thing that went well tonight lol)

So this 1st set kinda droped cuase i was so set on walkin over to the girls i just breezed by the bouncer checkin IDs & after a min he realized and came up & i realized, shit, i forgot mu id! dumb, da dum dumb!
Luckily my good buddy rolls up just then dressed to kill just get there from a wedding he went to. He runs me home, i change shirts, it was soaked w sweat from walkin drunk in the humidity, grab the id and we're off, as he feels over dressed & kinda was self conscious bout it.

We go to another bar next door to the 1st now, in the parking lot there wa 2 women standing talking a 7 & 9, next to a motorcycle that was obv not theirs and i ask "Hey is that ur hog?" They laugh "no". So unprepared i just kinda tryin to keep the convo goin. She had a "Hello my name is"... Blondie. I bust on here and poke it on her hip saying "why would ur mom name u that?" She says "no ones name is Blondie"(kinda shit testy) and i say what about that singer name Blondie? She says shes never heard of her.(fuckin 21y/o) it kina fizzles out from there.

We get to the door & a 3 set of girls two 6's & a 9 is walkin out & i stop them, and ask what they think of how my boy was dressed. They alll say they like it but he could fix it up better. So the 9 takes it upon herself to untuck his shirt fix his hair, lift his collar ect ect. & he does infact look better and they roll off cuase they were leavin. He was like "that was fuckin awesome!" directed at me for opening like that. I say "dude thats what i do now, that was step 1, thats the easy step, if get blown out 10xs after 10 successful opens, it wont seems so magical" (lol I wasnt too far off)

So that bar was lame so we head downtown to a huge 5 story building w/ 3 clubs and a live music venue all in one. It was seemingly bad ass w/ gorgeous woman everywhere.

I found that in the clubs in the burbs i was generating attraction ok, but being so new couldnt keep it goin for too long. But once we got to this place, itr was no longer so easy.

1ST OFF!!

Every fuckin club was too fuckin loud!!!! I couldnt comfortably open one set in any of the the 2 clubs we went into, becuase i couldnt even hear myself when im screamin into a persons ear.

ANYONE THAT KNOWS HOW TO DEAL W/ THIS PLEASE HELP ME!
Beyond "go to another place" I didnt see anyway to attract Non verbally, being so new and not too confident yet.

Now down on the street the intersections around this place were closed down and people just mingled out in the street. So we went down there. By this time its pushin 1am & i decide to start turbo opening everytime i see a group of girls.

I opened 10 sets on the street in 30mins or so. I did acouple, who lies more men or women, but it didnt click well. Now ive been cramming for months on material, but much like counting cards in vegas, its easy to hold the count at home, but in the moment, w/ all the stimulus goin on, my mind was blank!!

so i start into my own... Walk up confident medium-high energy and ask
"Hey u guys seen a guy in a bright green shirt? Says Mosimo real big across it?" (There was no guy in a green shirt, just a thread.) they say "No", i go "Shit he was supposed to tell me where this bomb little after hours club is at. You guys know where the after parties are?" Now, already, lookin back i see the many flaws in this opener & im sure others could find many more. Point is it actually opened great. If the point of a opener is to open, it worked 99% of the time, but after that i ran out of shit and couldnt seem to stack forward w/ anything interesting.
So after failed set after failed set, its 2am, bars close the people flood away, and we walk back to the car, opening 2 mixed sets along the way w/ the same BS lines and results.

Now, ill say my "wings" did not help me out at all. They just sat back pointing out groups of hot girls, id sarge right up to them, lol and theyd stay back and watch me drowned.
They said on the ride home they were impressed by my balls, i had no fear walking up to a group of 9s and potentially gettin blown out.

I said once again, 'thats just what i do now, dont hand out props yet, im on day one of a long hard road. So, right now i feel i have no fear now of goin up to girls, and gettin denied. Lets hope i improve, if this goes on 2-3 nights a week for 3-4months, lol i may not be so sure' but right now im feelin the learning begin!

After we got to my house, me and my "jr pua companion" We sat out side my house talkin for 45mins bout the night. What was money, what was horrid, why was so bad ect ect.
I think it was a big step in the right direction, hopefully, the results will come!

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Anyone that read this whole thing ur the shit!!! If ur ever in Des Moines, look me up & ill buy ya a beer!!!


CHEERS MATES

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"Women like the Roses
Men like the TwoLips"

First of all let me give you props for approaching so many girls on your first sarge.

So you know the tools and you can approach without anxiety. Have some patience, I'm sure you're money. Keep on approaching and try to figure out afterwards what worked and what didn't. The more you sarge the better you will become.

sounded like a fun night regardless of the results...i cant wait to be of "bar-going age" so i can get into that particular sarging scene. i think if you keep up the kind of approaching you were doing, some great things are bound to happen. congrats on havin the balls to just jump right in, and post more of your FR's!

Thanks PO, it was very fun and i got alot of lessons. Also i should of included i like only opened sets of like 8, 9s, & 10s. Probably partly my downfall...maybe not.

Ill tell u what helped me have such a no AA 1st night.
I download the David DeAngelo "Mastery" series & put it on my ipod.
I work at a ice rink, so i have 3-4 hours a day to do my work and listen to tunes.
But i said hell w/ tunes, and just started listening to the David D lecture.
My friends laugh cause everytime they see me i have my headphones on, & no im not listing to music, its this self help & dating gurus voice, telling me to not be such a "Wussie"

THIS IS HUGE!!!! Its like having Dave D as a wing man, in ur ear all day.
I woke up this past Saturday, went to go get grub, and popped on the ipod.
During it, a guest speaker mike, was just like. "Dude stop being a pussy!!! Go out already for christsake!!!"

This hit me strong. I turned off the ipod and called my boy and told him we were goin out. He wasnt feelin it, so i told him "just stop by we'll have a drink and see what happens"
We had some shots, watched some keys to the VIP & alittle section from Mysterys Holy Grail vid, and boom, we were in state, & i was in perma state.

I owe it to this "ipod guru" idea. Ironically when i got up for work today and listened to the Mastery class, it ended. It was like it had done its job gettin me to go out and sarge & it walked into the sunset lol.

Ive since put David Ds cocky comedy, Mystery Interview series, on the ipod, and im tryin to find magic bullets audio book.(good luck right?)

Its money guys. If u listen to a ipod/mp3 player for 30mins a day or more... Turn it into a "iPod Guru" !!!

Thanks guy, hope this works for u too.

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"Women like the Roses
Men like the TwoLips"