Hey guys. Another question about the poetry. How do you introduce it? Do you claim YOU wrote it or that you found it somewhere? Right now, I've got two specific scenarios I wanna use this in. One is a girl I'm in the Friend Zone with (I'm new at this PUA stuff). The other is a chick I met a couple weeks ago who lives in another town that I haven't seen since I met her, but we're now friends on facebook. In both cases, I don't know how to set it up. I have to have a reason why I'm sending them the poem. I can't just say, "Hey, check out this poem.", can I? Won't they be like, "Why did he send me this?"? It just feels incongruous to just send it to them out of the blue. How do I set it up so it makes sense to them that I would be sending it to them?

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Move to it indirectly. Like we do not show that we are directly interested, we do not directly show how good we are. Im a drawer, something girls like as well. Normally I ask them what they like or what they do for a living. normally you get the question back. So what do you do? then you say I like to write poets, if you would like to read them just let me know, I will send you the them. In normal scenarios they will ask for it.
But the best is to deliver it to her face to face, if you have the guts for it.

I think emailing nlp is ineffective.
You have to do it in person.
Or doing it on the phone is not too bad, cuz then they can hear your voice, but they still can't see your hand gestures.

I heard speed seduction is fantastic for breaking out of the friend zone.
It is virtually impossible otherwise.
Being a friend gives you a perfect opportunity to run patterns on her.

SS takes a lot of studying.
It's kind of like learning calculus.
It's challenging, but if you really apply yourself, you can do it.
It's not that hard if you really try.
I'm talking about really understanding and mastering SS pattern language and being able to use it properly, not just blindly reciting patterns and poems that someone else wrote.
I've studied several different SS materials so far and I'm understanding it better and better. When I first started, it was totally baffling. It was like nothing I ever experienced before.

Now I'm working on familiarizing myself with the exact procedure I'm going to use in the field so I can start using it in the field on real girls.

I suppose being able to recite it in person would cut the odds of getting caught using someone else's stuff, but the existing poems I wanna use are fairly long. That's a lot to memorize.

So far, no one's really answered my questions, though. If you use a pre-existing poem, do you claim you wrote it or that you read it somewhere? In what context do you give them or read them the poems? Again, I'm going for this friend of mine I've been lusting after and/or another girl I met a couple weeks ago but haven't seen since, but I can't just send them a poem out of the blue, can I?

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Before you send it, make sure you can't find it on google by copying some sentices. I Never sent something like this. So giving advice would only be based on speculation. Just try it out and let us know... there is no failure, only feedback.

There's a book of nlp poems called "Love Drops" written by Taylor.
It costs $10. I think the poems in that book probably can't be found online.

You can find some of the poems online. I typed in one line from Bishops Warm Fuzzy and found it right away. I'm going to use a thesaurus and change the words and phrasing. That should do the trick.

Incidentally, I realized last night that this Saturday is my friends birthday, so I have a perfect excuse to give her a poem. Wish me luck.

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Good luck with it.

Anyway, Im interested in that Love Drops book, anyone of you know where i can find a link to buy or where i can read them?

Thanks!

I ordered both the "love drops" and "tidal waves below me" books. They are full of SS pattern poems. They cost $10 each plus $5 shipping. But you can get 6 copies of both for $25 + $5 shipping. So I went for the 2nd deal.
I can sell you guys my extra copies for lets say $7 shipped.
That's $7 for both books (1 copy of each), including shipping.
You could send it to my SPAM account.
If you are interested, I will let you know when my copies arrive.