Hi all,

Long time reader and first time poster.

There's this girl who is a few degrees of separation out of my friendship circle - sorta "known" her for a while. We had a drunk hook-up about a year ago and I never really bothered pursuing it.

On Friday night, she was at the club where I was hanging out with some mates and had just broke up with her boyfriend so I started talking to her. She was quite drunk and I could tell very quickly that she was interested - after dancing with her a bit and isolating her, we were making out in no time.

The problem is her (sober) friend who was driving was with her and a bit pissed off. I invited them both to dance and her friend kinda dragged her off. I figured they were going to get a drink or chill out for a bit and that she'd be back but it turns out they must have gone home.

My question is - without her phone number (think I deleted it six months ago, but it might still be on my old phone) - is it possible to score a day two with this girl? I'd love to see her again in an environment where she's not drunk and where I can get to know her.

She's on facebook, but I don't really want to add her on that. I could send her a message but I have a feeling it'd come across too AFC. What do you guys think? Did I miss handle the sober friend? What should I do to score a day two?

Thanks in advance.

Aguirre:

I think you've stumbled into a huge case of Buyer's Remorse. You made out with her when she was very drunk, no comfort. You'd be lucky to talk to her again, because she may feel taken advantage of. However, if you want to try, then message her. If it's hopeless anyway, you may as well.

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Yours,
Red Hot

So next time I ought to build more comfort/attraction and not go for the kiss close even if I know I probably could? Interesting.

Is there any way I could play this to my advantage via FB? E.g: "Sorry we didn't get much of a chance to chat last night, I feel like we have some catching up to do - want to grab a coffee?" or something like that..?

Cheers

So she added me on FB so I decided to go ahead and msg her:

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Me:
what'd ya disappear for last night without saying goodbye ya silly duffa

;p

missed out on the rest of what turned out to be an amazing night lol

x

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Her:
hey kid,

haha i actually passed out 4 times that night was soooooooo gone i barely remember a thing ahhhhhhhh

payed the price big time the next morning vomited all the way down to (home) WORST!!!

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Me:
As a general rule, I don't accept friend requests from horribly drunk girls who pass out multiple times in a night and molest supple young men like myself.

I MAY however make an exception for you (her).

...

Didn't your mother ever warn you about adding strange and dangerous men on FB?

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Her:
Today at 14:54
molest bahahahahahahahahahahahahaha YOUR DREAMING YOUNG BOY!!!!

:p

I take my friend request back then haha

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Me:
Today at 15:05
Laughing at the very serious issue of rape and molestation in our society....

I can already tell you're trouble (her) ;p


Not to mention distracting me from my very serious-not-too-be-disturbed work no less.

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Her:
Today at 15:14
ill be sure to let you get back to this so called 'serious-not-too-be-disturbed work'

raping and molesting young boy/girls is fun on my behalf mmmm

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Me:
Today at 15:39
I had a feeling you were that way inclined. Do you also use your intoxicated state as an excuse for chasing after poor little boys and girls?

Don't think that one would stand up in court (her)...

"Yes Magistrate, I did sleep with that seven year old but I was drunk! Even passed out a few times during the deed!"

;p

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Her:
Today at 16:24
yeah i use my intoxication state of mind as an excuse to get away with my reckless bahaviour of chasing after poor little boys and girls who so dont love it!!!!

yes magistrate (me) did molest me on the 12/06/2009

bahahahahahhaha

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Me:
Today at 16:29
so you admit you were chasing after me?

actually i'm fairly sure it woulda been past midnight in which case it was the 13/06/2009.

served.

(you can't win, abandon all hope now )

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Any tips? What do you guys think - is she interested? How can I move the conversation to scoring a day two in a smooth way?

One big problem is that she lives a couple hours away from where I do and hence rarely comes out. Hmmmm....

Aguirre:

Very well played- you seem like a natural at online game.

You kept the amount of time between messages pretty well.

Quickly arrange a day 2 (before you're off her mind) and build COMFORT. It seems like you can get her to qualify pretty easily, so then let her show off aspects of her personality that you like, reward her with IOI and let it build from there.

Good luck

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Yours,
Red Hot