This shit isn't me. I dont know why but i feel like ive been selling out. i just finished college and work part time im just not living to the fullest. Earlier I said some pretty awful things to a girl i care about. She chose someone else and my AFC response was to get angry and call her "cock squeezin slut" there's really no way to take that back. but i do feel bad about it. I knew what i was getting into when i slept with her and its my fault for being so afc and letting my guard down. I just seek more than sex. I like connections and knowing theres a woman i can trust. I mean there are plenty of women in the world. I just don't know guys. I just don't know.

yeah dude, i hear you. i went through something similar a few months ago. it was a struggle daily for me to not speak with the girl, but i had developed one-itis and was completely devastated to be honest. i just kept it to myself and things got much better. try not to invest so much and have more fun in your encounters with women. this is not an easy fix to make it takes discipline and self control. find a valuable hobby to take up time when you feel your mind go AFC, anything to focus your energy some place more positive.

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Anybody can pick up some random girl and fuck her.

That's right, anybody.

But not everybody is meant to be a huge super-mack-daddy player, regardless of what the stereotype in the community may be. In my opinion one of the most honorable things a guy can be is the guy who could have anybody, but chooses one special person. At my core, that's who I am. So are a lot of other quality posters on this forum.

If you want connection, go get connection. If you want love, go make it. This is your life, and there's really only one rule to living it good:

Always always always always be true to who you are. Always.

Your boy,
870

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ya i agree with 870. i think that the game is there to help us meet women. we don't all have to be mPUA's with 10 girlfriends, if we find a girl we really care about, the game is there to help us keep her

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yeah having a connection is one thing, obsessing over a situation that isn't fixable, is another game altogether. it's easy to sit back and say cliches like follow your heart and go for connection. the fact is you can have a connection without being AFC. you can have a connection without having dependency. you can have a connection and still be dating other women, but unless you and the girl have been seeing eachother a while, there is no reason to obsess over one girl, especially one who may not reciprocate.

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YES ALL VERY TRUE SOME PEOPLE ABUSE THE GAME TO FEED THERE OWN SEXUAL FANTASIES THATS NOT WHAT SARGING'S ABOUT