| I didn't really know in which forum this belongs but this one seemed as good as any.
The background is as follows. I've been friends for a long time, I'm talking over 10 years, with this HB9, we haven't been hanging out like everyday but we've met once in a while and always gotten
along very well. It's never been any romantic feelings just two people who truly enjoy each others company, of course I've noticed that she's gorgeous but never more than that, she's just been my hot friend.
Now for the last months or so we've been hanging out a bit more frequently and for the last couple of weeks there has been a change in how I look at her, I've always known she's this amazing, beautiful person but now I've started to see her as a possible GF. It feels like the energy has changed between us, thatt she's also behaving differently, but that might of course just be me looking at her differently and/or she responding to that.
So anyway we met the other day and it got to a point where I thought something would have
happened had we been in a different place, at this event there was no way for us to be alone, but there was touching and flirting and IOIs all over the place and when I said goodbye I felt pretty confident that it'd be a done deal next time we were to meet, which is in a few days.
Ok, after this long introduction here's my question, the other day I changed my status on FB to: "KrissO is not only handsome but he's a funny fucker."
It wasn't aimed at anyone just me stealing a quote from Ricky Gervais.
My target commented-> "That's more information than I needed KrissO."
I answered-> "What? Shouldn't come as a surprise to anyone that I am handsome and funny as hell.
However if you read "funny fucker" as someone who'll literally make you laugh during sex I guess I should have kept it to myself cause if there's one time you don't wanna make people laugh it's at that time.
It would get even worse if you were to interpret funny as peculiar."
My target->"That's it! I actually read it literally. And now I don't think I can read it any other way."
My reply->"Freud would probably have a lot to say about that interpretation."
First of all what do you guys think of my responds. Good? Anything I could have done differently?
Second, I don't know what to make of it. The first comment could suggest she actually doesn't wanna think of me as someone sexual and she's just joking around happily in the friend zone. And that's a bad thing.
On the other hand, why comment at all? And the last sentence of her second comment feels a bit suggestive. I just don't know if it's friendly banter or flirting. I'm confused and I'm analyzing way to much.
I get overly analytical when I start to fall for someone, no problem as long as I'm only physically attracted, but as soon as I'm starting to develop feelings for a girl my head starts spinning and I'm turning every stone, analyzing every smile, every word she says and I end up not getting the girls I REALLY want.
Basically I get laid but I don't get love.
That's why I need you guys to give me some outside perspective and help me get my head out of the gutter.
So after this marathon post, what do you think? How should I proceed? Will I have to fight my way out of the friend zone first or is it closing time?
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