| So I met this girl... I donno, little less than a week ago... we were both working on a film shoot (both film students)... I talked with her, picked up IOI's no big deal.
Yesterday we were both working in the editing lab and it was so clear that she was interested. So, I just kept to the usual DHV routine, and in the end she canceled her evening planned with the roommates and came back to my place.
The interesting spin is when I kissed her she was there for a moment, and then held back. Afterward I asked if something was up? She said she was confused.
I had noticed earlier when we were both working/ flirting that she was texting somebody, I assumed it was some guy she was most likely dating or interested in based on the way she hid her phone and acted every time a text would come.
So when she said she was confused, I said about what?
She said, "well I've only known you for like 4 days"
So, in response to that cop out I called her out and said, "Is the reason you're confused because you are worried 1) that you don't know me very well and are afraid I'm just playing you and 2) you're also worried about what kissing me would mean in relation that the guy you were texting ealier?"
She was a bit shocked, but still dynamically "confused" (fucking lame.) So I just said, "Tell you what, let me know when you figure it out." And let her go.
Question 1: Is it generally a bad idea to ever bring up any guy she's dating or interested in? I tend to think so in my experience...
Question 2: What might have been a good way to deal with her stumbling back after a kiss. - Obviously something is wrong - I still don't know fully what is going on in her mind other than she doesn't want to feel like she's being played, or like she's easy.
Half of her was there... Half of her was not, if that makes sense.
I wasn't looking for an F-Close, but... I donno... opinions?
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