ok, i designed this new theory of if you fucked it up badly with a girl (acting like a wussy, etc.) then to lose complete contact with her for a few months and then talk to her with some kick ass game and you have ALOT better chance of getting attraction from her than if you kept in contact with her the whole time (which almost always leads to you never getting a second chance)..

..so anyways, i did this to a girl that ive liked for years now, and lately shes been emailing me tons and wondering why we stopped talking (i was stuck in the friend zone) so i told her how i felt about her and she told me that she was attracted to me but isnt ready for a relationship (i know this is just an excuse).. so we talked today and decided that we would chill sometime this week and see how things go.. if she digs me then im in for sure, but if not, i told her i dont wanna be friends and we wont hang out anymore..

my question is.. what should i do when we first see eachother? and whats a good date idea? (i was thinking on just chilling at my house and talking to her, playing, etc.)

if you have any comments or input on this i'd like to know.. i have about 2 days to think of something good and i cant fuck this up

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never accept being anything less than great

watch a movie at ur house and when u sit down.. she will most likely sit down beside u(hopefully u got a couch... well bout 15 min into the movie lay slanted on the couch and she will most likely lay on u... after she does that rub her arms and have ur other hand on her stomach(key is to make her feel comfortable) then u go from there and do wat ever... she will be comfortable with you and u had plenty of romantic kino so make out with her and u got that bitch hooked

Skotch

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"do unto others wat has been done to you"-TOOL

That is the last thing you want to do. With the current strain already placed on them together, being in a confined place where thoughts can stray to it will only build discomfort.

Take her somewhere fun. Something where there are a lot of distractions or interesting things.

Is she athletic? Take her rock climbing. Tease her. Make sure you kino escalate. You will have to play aloof since you already proclaimed that you like her. When you are all tired from your activity, then watch a movie. If she thinks of something, it will not be your 'lost' friendship. Instead, she will be thinking of how much fun she just had with you.

Proceed with the above after that point.

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

i used this on my ex GF and it worked great but w/e if u dont thk it will work then thats kool with me.... only my opinion

Skotch

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"do unto others wat has been done to you"-TOOL

valence is on da money dude, take her somewhere with lots of activity, bowling, a market, something like that. don't do a movie first time, thats a killer in my opinion.

the other nite i took a target to a pub, then a nite market, starbux and a bar. kino slowly escalating along the way. location changes work well, they keep the pace snappy and it makes u look spontaneous and fun. try not to hesitate or look unsure about where ya wanna go or wot ya gonna do.

make sure u have lotsa game up yr sleeve, cube, stories, try to direct the convo along sexual lines when u think u hav enuf rapport. C/F comes natural to me, so on the first date i've usually talked about her fave position, when the last time she had sex, if she "self-helps" (masturbates). if my target is any way surprised i just feign amazement that she feels uncomfortable talking about that stuff. but as i said, u should already have established some trust and rapport, and be seen as someone who is bold and a bit crazy even.

if ya got a digi camera take that along, get some fun pics, its a good state accelerator. If ya hav some good pics of u make sure they are on the memory, good topic 4 convo

D
M

PUSH PULL!

When you see her give her a nice smile and a big hug, then push her away (gently lol) and say 'thats enough of that' playfully.

TELL HER to sit there or stand there instead of lettting her decide for herself
women love a dominering guy

And liek the others say - kino escelate, make her sit on the couch then let her get comfy with you. But if she says shes attracted to you im sure your fine dude. Let us know how u get on

I am sensing some major oneitis here... be careful. The more you want it, the more likely you will be to screw it up.

I recommend the push-pull, like stated above. Start off kind of strong, then go distant, then give her attention, then back off, etc. You can find plenty of push-pull stuff on the forum.

Good luck.

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-Love, Charity, and Esteem-

From what I gathered you have been friends for years? And your thinking about doing the same thing you have been doing with her for your "date".

(Or are you not just hanging out at your house?"

I think you should go do something you two have NEVER done together. It doesn't matter what it is. Just anything that Won't remind her of your friendship!

Go make some pottery. Go take a dance lesson. Go.. whatever, just don't do what you always do with her (or you always Did with her).

EvoJ

im diggin the input.. im gonna take her for a walk and talk for a bit, theres a driving range down the street so i'll show her how to golf(something new) and ill be able to get in close without making her feel uncomfortable and then after we can chill in my backyard or something.. i havent really decided yet, but ill repost and let you know how it goes.. thanks dudes


...and ye, she's my one weakness.. ive been with lots of girls but this ones just really respectible and so cool.. as lame as it sounds, i have to have her

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OH How i know that feeling!!!...


im in exactly! the same situation! heads up for how it goes! pm me your msn please?

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I like to hybrid techniques, inner game and methods with my own natural game.

OH How i know that feeling!!!...


im in exactly! the same situation! heads up for how it goes! pm me your msn please?

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I like to hybrid techniques, inner game and methods with my own natural game.