There's an art to pick up as you all know. Is there an art to rejection?

How do girls in a LTR when out alone in public turn down guys without leading the guy's on, embarrassing egos or causing dangerous outcomes?

The reason why I ask is because my girl friend gets approached all the time when I'm not around. Some guys get the picture, but others are just jerks.

The "Sorry, I got a boy friend" routine is played out! I think that line is the pickup equivalent of "Your beautiful are you a model?" or some corny line that nice guys use on HB10's to get no where.

I thought of one like "I noticed those girls (directing attention towards random group of hot girls) checking you out! They look like they're single and out to have a good time" etc.

I don't know maybe some guys will still take to this as flirting?

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you can fake it till you make it, but if it feels REAL go with the flow!

The reason why I ask is because my girl friend gets approached all the time when I'm not around

Why does this bother you?

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Sometimes I worry about her safety.
But, she doesn't know that

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you can fake it till you make it, but if it feels REAL go with the flow!

I think it also comes down the notion of trust and jealously. I know I commit these problems too and I am just about to start my LDR with my gf of 6 months.

How do u guys deal with being away from your girl? (i.e. trust issues, etc) I'm having a hard time thinking about it, but I guess it comes down to inner game. However, I also heard that you have to show that you are not extremely needy in a LDR to make her feel more comfortable. Im always open for more advice!!

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you can fake it till you make it, but if it feels REAL go with the flow!

Just sit down and talk with her; however, say she can't do this this and this, say that this this and this are disrespectful. That way you aren't restricting her, but you are letting her know that stuff doesn't fly with you. Also, I had the same concerns. I just told the truth. I said "90% of guys go to bars and clubs to pick up women, just talking to a guy is leading him on. Now, I'm not saying you can't talk to other guys because that's ridiculous, but just keep that in mind." Also, you got to remember not every single guy out there is a mPUA, the "I have a boyfriend" line works on most guys.