I need a bit of help. Theres a girl I like at college that i like, We havent spoken for a year and its the end of the year now. I think the best way is probably introducing myself through a facebook message but being discreet at the same time and not giving too much away. such as me having a crush on her. What is the best way to go about in a message. How can i word a nice message so that my chances are increased.

If you're going to use a facebook message, make it indirect. A message I've used that works:

Title it "Random..."

Alright, this is going to sound ridiculous, but I have to tell you this story...

My friend Kevin was trying to look up someone on facebook and I was looking over his shoulder and I saw your profile pic and thought you were my friend from high school, so I told him this whole story about how you were like my best friend for two years and how we had huge crushes on each other for most of the time we knew each other but never dated. And he's like, "What happened?" and I told him you had commitophobia and I was going to go into more detail but as I was saying it I looked down again at your pic and saw your name... obviously not my high school friend, her name is Katie... so then my story died. So Kevin is looking at me waiting for a story, but I'm having this internal battle with myself, trying to figure out if I should just continue the story and play it off like you were the girl or if I should just admit to him that I didn't read your name in time... so I went with playing it off like you were the girl. This backfired, though, cuz then Kevin clicked on your profile and, of course, your high school is different than mine, so he's like, "Did you just make all that shit up?"

Anyway, I thought it was pretty funny, kind of reminded me of "Jenny" by Flight of the Conchords.

Your ex-high school crush,
(Insert name here)

p.s. hope you've gotten over your commitophobia

wickelystickelyish thats awesome man, i bet this could be used as a great opener too mad props

Haha thanks man. Yeah it's 100 percent successful so far on getting a reply, usually something like "Haha that was hilarious! You made my day! Your ex high-school crush, so and so"... after that you can easily transition into other comfort-building stuff and it's so easy to do online because you can think about everything you say. But thanks for the vote of support man, I might try it out as an opener like you said... I'll have to change a couple things around... maybe make it about their clothes or something, but it'll get them talking.