Two days ago I was a needy looser and today here is my first post thanks for the folks from this site !!!

I found that right timing to send a text message could be used to your benefit. If your game is tight and you got the strong opponent - put her in a tight spot by intentionaly giving her less time to THINK before responding.

I text her 5 minutes before her lunch finishes.
I text her 5 minutes before her school break ends.
I text her any other time when I am aware of her personal timing

By having less time to think/read you, she is more likely will either reply smthng stupid (can be used against her to lower selfesteem) or smthng honest (use as prescribed )

But do not leave too liitle time, as she might put your message "on hold" than review it and fir back with smart ass answer.

In case u have to show the value and lacking chances to do so, here is a trick used by me many times. 100% tested and worked.

If u meet a girl to spent some time in NON-NOISY environment simply spent some time with your cell phone prior to the metting and make several reminders so they will beep when u are spending time with her. Flip through the phone menu - make sure the sounds are similar to "NEW MESSAGE" beeps

Have her hear 5-7 "New messages" within an hour or so and than either:

a) take off (u are busy and in demand)
b) shut the phone with "guilty" face (u are busy and in demand, but "value" time with the girl close to you at the moment
c) start "answering" (u are busy and in demand and could care less about a girl)
d) come up with your own action pack