hey guys,

about 2 months ago i just made a friend with a girl on facebook who she was coming to my country for a holiday. now she's here and she always ask me to meet while she shows me lots of IOIs since she gave me her phone number, always ask me if i did get out and so on .

after a month ask me to meet, last friday we just met and it was a wonderful evening. we just kisses each other all the night and she looks that she's having fun.

now yesterday she wrote on her fb status that she was drunk and didn't remember anything while from yesterday on we didn't talked with each other. i just message her on msn but she didn't respond, probably she wasn't there.

now i decided to don't talk her, if she wants to meet again she will msg me on msn or on phone you know. But in the bottom of my heart i wish that we meet again and may be continue from where we had left.

what should i do ???? just let her and don't worry about her, try to talk her again on msn or just let her to talk me first ??

any help please ??

thanks

So you didn't call her the night after the kisses???

Well I think you just need to call her and meet again.

no :S
i was confused after that message on her facebook status ( that she was drunk and didn't remember anything) and on the other hand, i didn't want like to annoying her... i just pretended that she will talk first since before we met she always talk me first.

now from last friday we didn't talked again. Should i talk her or let her talk me first ?

Don't ever let the lady control these things.
You should control the situation and you should call her.
I'm really no Casanova and have not dated a lot of girls in my life but this thing is so basic, after taking a step with a girl call her.
It doesn't matter even if it's a date without kissing. Every step you take if it's meaningful, then the guy should call.
Now I don't know what she wrote or how long it was after you kissed but it might just because you didn't call.
Anyway you should call I hope you still got a chance cuz not calling can really get you crush and burn.

thanks man ..

yesterday we have talked on msn, the first talk after we met .... it seems that she's not complete talking as much as before .. just i always start a new topic not like before.. always she talks me first ask me questions you know what i mean...

from when we met know i'm feeling that may be i'm annoying her since i always start to talk her first on msn not like before .. she will talk me first ..

should i complete to talk her first or let her to talk me first ... but i'm afraid that she will not talk me again and we loose contact ... but on the other hand if i remain to talk her first i will show her lots of indication of interests like she showed me before we met... and i don't want to show that too much cause then she will give me more hard game ..

any help ...

after each word "talk" put a "to" behinde it in the sentence.

this is not an english grammer forum ... i have a problem may be you can help me out with rather than correct my english since it is more important ..

any help pls ... urgent cause time is passing ...

OK man, we need more info.
Did you guys talked a lot before kissing? were you "just friends"?
On that night when you kissed was she drunk and wanted that or you and her were drunk and it look like it was an "accident"?

Cuz if so then you are still in A2.
And if you were just friends and you tried to pull it off then you just made it uncomfortable for her cuz she just think of you as a good not-sexual friend.

Now we need that kind of information to help you.

yes we start talking on msn about a month ... and she show me lots of IOI since once she saw me in a night club and she didn't talk me cause she was shy she said.. and from that time onwords she always start to talk me on msn and shows IOI, since she wanted to meet, gave me her number and every weekend ask me if i'm going out or not ..

that night when we meet she wasn't totally drunk cause she was knowing what is saying even remember my name and surname, she was just like happy... me too was a little bit drunk .. and when we start dancing she begins to show me that want a kiss and from then on we began kissing each other.. sometimes she came on me to kiss me too ..

now i'm talking her once every 2 days so that way i will not show her too much IOI ... but the problem is that before she will start to talk me first on msn and now after we met i have to talk her first ... and this is leting me to think ...

what should i do ..??

Hmmm to be honest, I'm not sure.
And about IOI in general -
A. As far as I know those are for A2 and A3 so stop looking for them.
B. Starting a convo on MSN is not necessarily an IOI. Some girls don't start convos because they see it as something the man should do. And some start a convo (either man or a girl) just from boredom. And some just as friend.

I think you're still in A2 "why??" you may ask?! Well, I think it's because she's keeping a distance from you. However, I'm not sure.
Now as I see it you need to know where are you (A2,A3 or C2 AKA Connection) I do not know what is the ultimate way to do this but, I think I have some ideas.
You can CALL HER (I think it's the 3 time I tell you to do this!!!!!) if you want a serious LTR with her you have to CALL ON THE PHONE that's step 1. From there you can hear how does she sound to you like (distant or comfortable) talk about meeting her and try to understand if she's comfortable to meet you or she's like this "hmm I don't know; I can't". Then you can have a better understanding about what to do.

If you're in A2 continue from there (C&F.NEGS,DHV)
If you're in A3 continue from there (qualify her and give IOIs)
If you're in C2 You have to meet her and CONNECT!

Please, let us know what happened.

hey thanks for your help .. i really apreciate..
but what exactly A2, A3, C2 means ??

hey guys...
hope everyone is good not like me ...

anyway, it was another friday... and we met again but this time without messages just saw each other in the club ... and we just said hello to each other, a kiss on the cheaks and thats all cause she was talking to guy and chilling with her friends so i just said hello and left ..

what should i do to take it back ??

Forget her. What was with that Facebook stuff? It just seemed like excuse making. Sort of buyers remorse.Learn from it and move on